How to Win Back Your Ex With Common Sense

September 8, 2009 by  
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So, you’re boyfriend, or girlfriend has ended the relationship and moved on. You’re trying to move on too, but you just can’t seem to give up on the relationship. Perhaps you have a sense that your ex still loves you, perhaps you just believe you two belong together. You feel their is still hope for the relationship and want to try one more time to win back your ex.

How to you go about doing that? Where do you start? you probably have some ideas on things that you can do, like sending them love notes, or a love letter, or buy them gifts.

The first thing you need to do is STOP. Take a step back and follow the tips below before you go any further.

First, you need to look at what went wrong, and in particular, what part did you play in the relationship ending. It takes two to make a relationship work, and like it or not, you probably contributed to the breakup.

If after evaluating your contribution to the relationship ending, ask yourself if you are willing to address those issues, or if you even can address those issues..

If you really think you can change, and are committed to doing so, you may have a chance to win back your ex. It’s not a bad idea to talk to your ex and apologize for the things that you had done that caused strain in the relationship. This shows your ex that you cared enough to reflect on what you did wring in the relationship. It also shows a sign of maturity that you were able to face fault and apologize.

During that conversation, do not suggest that they take you back since you have learned your lesson and are promising to change. It’s too early to press them to get back together. Plus, when you don’t go asking to get back together, they will see that you appear to be able to move on.

Stay in touch with your ex, perhaps weekly, for a while. Just give them a quick call to see how they’re doing. Keep the conversation light. Subtly remind them of some of the good times you had together, but don’t go overboard. You just want to create a small spark in their mind and heart related to some special time you had together.

These weekly, and casual, conversations will either lead to a friendship, or you will come to the conclusion that they are not interested in even being friends.

Friendships often lead to more serious relationships. For many relationships, the “love” relationship developed to quickly and the friendship stage was never really developed. Having a strong friendship may be something that your relationship needed and could lead to a stronger love relationship.

The above tips should help you win your ex back, but you need more help that I can provide in a blog post. I suggest you get the detailed step by step Win A Love Back guide.

Can I Win Him Back Even If He Shows No Interest

February 25, 2009 by  
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You may be thinking that since you have lost your boyfriend and he shows no interest in getting back together, that it’s over for good.

Honestly, it may be over for good, but you still may have a chance to win him back even if he shows no interest.

There’s really only one way of knowing if you can win him back, and that is to give it a try. He may be appearing to have moved on, and has no interest in you, but you may still have a chance.

The best thing you can do is to show him that you still care about him as a person.  You can’t be a needy, stalking ex girlfriend – you need to be a supportive friend.  By being mature and showing him that you can be in the same room together without creating drama, will go a long way to proving to him that you can still be friends, or at least acquaintances, without being in a love relationship.

Become a friend that understands his feelings, trials and successes.  Joke with him and show him he can have a good time hanging out with you.

Most solid relationships start out as friendships, so you need to go back to the basics of being a friend.  It could be that your relationship never grew from a strong friendship and that hurt your love relationship.

Going back to being friends and growing from there, may make for a stronger love relationship in the future.

Be warned that being friends can be difficult, especially when you see him dating other people.  If you still want him back, that’s something you will have to deal with.  As time goes by, he will either realize that you are a great friend and one of the few people he can really count on.

When you reach the point of being good friends, there will come a time when he will realize he still wants to be more than friends with you.  Or, you may just realize that you have moved on and can no longer be more than friends with him.

In any case, you will have done the right, and mature thing, will have grown as a person and will either have won him back or you will me moving on to better relationship.

So you can get your ex back even when he shows no interest in you.  For more tips like this, you need to read the Win Him Back Guide.

If My Ex Boyfriend Got a Girlfriend, can I Still Win Him Back?

January 10, 2009 by  
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If my ex boyfriend got a girlfriend, can I still win him back?

If your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, yes you can still win him back.  But, you need to be patient and handle things correctly.  It can also greatly depend on who broke up with who.

If you broke up with him, it will probably be easier to win him back.  He may have this new girlfriend to fill a void he has with missing you, or he may be trying to make you jealous.  Still, you need to handle things correctly, and I will give you some tips below.

If he broke up with you, it will probably be a little more difficult winning him back and it will probably take more time.  If he broke up with you, there may be a number of different reasons why your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend.  He may have wanted to date other people, including the girl he is now with.  If you have done something that hurt him, resulting in him breaking up with you, he may be dating to get back at you – he may trying to hurt you. Finally, he may have come to the conclusion that you two are not a good match and he has moved on.

The good news is, in every case, there still is a chance that you can win him back.

First, here are some things you absolutely, positively DO NOT want to do.  You do not want to beg and plead to get back together.  You do not want to promise to change your ways if he’ll just take you back.

And, you cannot even think about going so far as to try and break up the new relationship he might be having.  This type of behavior is immature, appears too needy and will probably drive him away forever.  It will cement in his mind that you are not right for each other.

Do not follow him around on his dates, or show up everywhere you think he and his new girlfriend are going to be.  This is not good for you, and your peace of mind.  Plus it makes you appear to be stalking, which is just creepy.

In the other hand, don’t go out of your way to avoid him.  If you frequent the same places restaurants, clubs, school or whatever don’t stop going there to avoid him.

Instead, the next time you end up in the same place together, when you walk in and see him, acknowledge him.  But instead of going up to him and trying to get his attention, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room.

Another technique that can be very powerful, is to tell him that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more comfortable.  If he insists that you stay, do stay but move away from him and mingle with other people.  If he says nothing, or doesn’t insist you stay, be nice and polite and simply go.  It may be really hard on you, but that mature, confident, strong behavior will get him thinking.

It’s important to remember at all times how you appear to him.  It’s going to be hard to get him back if you look childish or scheming.

After a week or two, give him a call just to say hello, and to tell him that you were thinking about him.  Ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions like that.  Don’t start pouring your heart out on how you may be struggling and want him back.  If you appear to be moving on, he will have to reflect on if he still wants to restore the relationship with you or not.

If he hasn’t made any moves to indicate he wants to see you, it’s okay to call him every two weeks or so to check in and see how he’s doing.  At some point in time, he will either give you clues that he still has some interest in you, or you will find out that he is no longer interested.

In either case, you should now be in a place were you can handle the situation without too much emotion being involved.

Even if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, you can win him back, you just need to tools to help you.  This winning an ex back guide has helped over 6100 people in 67 countries win their love back – I’m sure it can help you!

How to Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On

December 23, 2008 by  
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Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on “how to get my ex back when he’s moved on’? Don’t bother moping, because what you have lost does not mean you have lost it forever. Here are some quick and simple tips for learning how to get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears to be interested in associating with you.

1 – The first step to getting the man of your dreams back is finding a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really, really does not want anything to do with you, then there are a number of options that you can employ from this point on.

2 – One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to be his friend. Make a really good friend to him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without creating any drama. Show him that you can joke around with him and have a healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants you again.

3 – When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind to him but don’t be afraid to have a little bit of attitude. You are going to want him to want you, but you’re also going to want to give him the feeling that he cannot have you just yet. While playing games is not the best way to go, you do not want give an air of hard to get, making him more interested in the process.

4 – You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn’t completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt anyone – But it is important that you play it safe because if he doesn’t think you are available, he probably will not find the motivation to pursue you.

5 – Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under estimate you. You are going to want to play things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that has happened, and that you are willing to move on. If you act desperate, things won’t work out the way you are intending them to, so avoid doing this at all costs.

6 – Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a mysterious “you can’t have me” kind of way.

7 – Casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had together. These good memories will help him to remember how good the two of you used to be together. Don’t bring up any bad memories, because it will only hurt his bad side, which will not do you any good.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.