Why does my bf’s mom keep mentioning she was responisble for breaking up his previous relationship?
January 15, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Jackie_belle asked:
I’m not a bad girl, but everytime me and my bf have a little argument and she finds out she mentions to him that she broke up his last relationship. Almost like she was proud of doing it. What is the point in that now?
Daryl
I’m not a bad girl, but everytime me and my bf have a little argument and she finds out she mentions to him that she broke up his last relationship. Almost like she was proud of doing it. What is the point in that now?
Daryl
She’s trying to warn you… “Don’t mess with my son or I’ll ruin your relationship”…. watch out for her!!
She’s probably letting him know that if he ever wants out, he has an easy out. HER. Because if she’s the reason then he did nothing wrong. Makes him look like a little prince. She’s protecting her baby.
she wants to let u know that she is in control
Hi Jackie. It sounds like your boyfriends mom is overprotective of her son. But that isn’t any excuse, she should respect your relationship with him and be able to trust her son’s judgment. Parents shouldn’t medal in their children’s relationships unless they think there is something harmful or detrimental going on. If you and your boyfriend happen to have a disagreement, try not to argue around his mother, or that will just add fuel to the fire.
Also, if you are over, you may want to talk to his mother about this, perhaps even with your boyfriend present, and let her know that you have her son’s best interest in mind and all relationships have their ups and downs and that it isn’t fair to bring up other relationships that he has had because you are a different person and this hurts your feelings. She should be able to respect that.
She is letting you know that she could break you up and she wouldn’t hesitate to do it.
Mom’s are always protective of their sons. A friend of mine has two daughters and a son. The two daughters have both dated and she hasn’t got involved at all. With her son, when he brings a new girl home, she has the feeling that the girl isn’t good enough for him no matter how nice.
Your boyfriend’s Mom has his best interests at heart. Make sure that you don’t have cause to cross her because she sounds like someone you want on your side.