who here thinks your getting cheated on if your gf or bf?
November 10, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
bellanova08 asked:
Goes to work , and you find out that they didnt go to work that day because you call the job and they tell you they are off that day? Yet your bf or gf comes home the same time they usually come home when they get out work? what would you do?
Diane
Goes to work , and you find out that they didnt go to work that day because you call the job and they tell you they are off that day? Yet your bf or gf comes home the same time they usually come home when they get out work? what would you do?
Diane
Question the motherfuker!!
something obviously isn’t right. especially if they are coming home at the normal time.
the trusting (ok naive) side of me says that they are out shopping for Christmas or something….
the non-trusting side of me says someone has some explaining to do
Question them, if they lie to u kick to the curb bc they will only do it again! tell them afterwards u called their work and they had the day off. send them packin u dont need to be lied too.
It depends on the character of your bf or gf. If you do not trust them, it would not matter what they did or why, because there is not trust. If you trusted them, you would not worry because you would know they are not cheating.
I believe with all of my heart that my gf would not cheat on me. The question is not so much about their behavior as it is about your trust of him or her.
Ask. Kinda obvious….. it usually works.
Ask them where they went. Wait until they answer and then ask other questions and, if possible check up on them.
A key question is whether there is a sensible reason for not telling you in advance.
Ask them where they was at and if they say work,then say um that’s funny cause when I called you wasn’t there. Is there something we need to talk about since you just lied about where you was at. Are we living in our life lying now where we are when we aren’t actually there. Question all in having yourself feel better in such situations as this. Truth follows trust and without such no relationship can work.