What keeps people breaking up and making up, is it possible for such a couple to get married and be happy ?
January 19, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
matilda k asked:
breaking up because the guy has been cought cheating with another woman, but the woman loves her man so much, she left the country for a year & come back after a year and the guy wants the woman back with him, claiming to have changed and that he wants to settle down now,she is not sure whether he is telling the truth or he will go back to wat he used to do and **** her again, part of her is scared of being **** and part of says i can not be with another man apart ffrom this one because she loves him so much and she jelouse to see him another woman. this is a confused woman please help her make a decision and her love, she had dates with other guyz but its not just making sense to her, she gets no feelings at all ffor the other guy, wat should she do.
Johnathan
breaking up because the guy has been cought cheating with another woman, but the woman loves her man so much, she left the country for a year & come back after a year and the guy wants the woman back with him, claiming to have changed and that he wants to settle down now,she is not sure whether he is telling the truth or he will go back to wat he used to do and **** her again, part of her is scared of being **** and part of says i can not be with another man apart ffrom this one because she loves him so much and she jelouse to see him another woman. this is a confused woman please help her make a decision and her love, she had dates with other guyz but its not just making sense to her, she gets no feelings at all ffor the other guy, wat should she do.
Johnathan
I like to believe there is such a thing as a happy marriage,but you have to want it to work. If there is any doubt in your mind ,it’s not going to last because whenever there’s a row or he disappears you’ll always wonder where he is and what he’s up to. I personally think you really need to try and move on. Good luck
This is a co-dependant relationship. They don’t really like each other, but they are addicted to each other. These people should not get married. They should separate themselves from one another until the withdrawals subside and then perhaps they can attempt a friendship(this probably won’t work because they don’t actually like or respect each other anyway), but they should not try to be intimate ever again because this releases the chemicals to which they are addicted. She should not try to date other guys until the addiction has passed. This is like trying to quit smoking cigarettes by smoking pot instead.
maybe for only a little my parent were that way and they were married for five years then they got a divorce
Well, my guy and I spend time together and apart, he in MN and me in CA, but if he cheated on me I’d be on my way. We spend time apart cause we are going to be getting used to it, I’m going to join the navy and he just got out last year.
This is how it works for men and women, you let him get a way with it once and it may happen again. I’ve cheated but not on my current boyfriend. I know i won’t cause after 3 years I know i plan on spending the rest of my life with him.
I went through the same thing though, I liked a guy and he cheated with me on his girlfriend after we broke up. Does that make sense? but I thought I loved the guy and it took a long time to get over him. We never got back together even though we fooled around. I’m glad cause I would worry if he would fool around on me and that would ruin a relationship and a friendship.
we have been married 39yrs this year . its jolly hard work . and it takes two . young people want to much nowadays , they dont give marriage a chance …..