What is the chance of 2 16 year olds breaking up after 9 months togher?
November 30, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
ojuzzy asked:
2 of my friends both about 16 have been going out togher for nine months now and i want to no what are the chance of them breaking up. they never fight or anything so what is the chance. and whhen there not at school talking there alomost always on there phone or on msn talking
2 of my friends both about 16 have been going out togher for nine months now and i want to no what are the chance of them breaking up. they never fight or anything so what is the chance. and whhen there not at school talking there alomost always on there phone or on msn talking
the reason i ask this is because i like one of them thats why
Johnie
They probably wont break up anytime soon then. But there is a chance if they are always on the phone or msn. If you talk to much, it can eventually cause fights. But they may be right for eachother. Dont be such an ass, and dont try to break them up.
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16 year olds break up all the time. i have a 16 year old neice who is always dating someone…i think her last relationship was about that long. no worries!!!
Frankly, Doc, unless one of them really misses a step and ruins the parade (so-to-speak), than not very likely. Sounds like a happy couple if I ever heard one.
It could last a long time. My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 13 & now we are 18, almost 19. Don’t try to break them up; if its not meant to be, then the break up will happen.
its not a very good chance but ive seen it happen. and if it did happen for u it wouldnt be the first time in the world.
well i guess they will break up sooner or later its not like they will get married or anything. A good relationship needs to have its bad moments where u fight because otherwise things get dull you need a bit of conflict.
to be honest i wouldn’t recommend u go along and jump on the one you like straight after they break up that’s just not cool
Its not likely that you will find your life partner at 16. They may be doing good right now but they’re both young. They could grow tired of each other after a while. I’m not saying you should get your hopes up, because they could be right for each other. I say If you really like her let her know. Chances are she feels the same way and just isn’t saying anything till you do.
First thing, Good news to you!
The chance they will break up is extremely high. I’m talking up to 90% high. But it is a matter of time.
My reasoning:
What you’re describing here is a couple of 16 year olds going out with each other.
Teenagers are young.
Teenagers are not so financially stable unless they have rich parents.
Teenagers want strong, intense love.
Teenagers want excitement in the relationship.
Here is the reason why these will affect their relationship.
Their youthfulness will make them want something going on all the time. They can’t stay still. Something has to happen.
I’m not saying that teenagers are poor, but without jobs, it would be hard on the relationship. And teens are usually dependent on their parents.
Another thing is that your friends seem to always be in each others’ faces all the time. They’re in this deep, intimate relationship right now. And they’ve been going on for 9 months like this. Not good for their relationship.
I’m not saying calling up everyday is bad, but it will raise the bar for them. They’ll have to call every day or more to make them feel like they still love each other. And when things get busy like exams etc, the phone calls start getting less deep and less frequent and one of them or both will feel not as close anymore. And it will put a lot more strain on their relationship.
Also, they might end up wanting space to breathe. Sounds like they’re always together. Also not good for long term. They’ll end up wanting space for their own lives.
Conclusion: This is not exact science, and i cannot calculate that they will break up next week or next month or even next year. But it’s going to be extremely hard on their relationship.
Unless they’re extremely super at forming their relationship and know what will break them up and both try to prevent it, I can safely bet they’ll break up. But I don’t know when.
Advice to you is that you may want to keep an eye out on that person you like but don’t keep your hopes too high up because they may break up after graduation and by that time you may not like the person anymore. Cos there’s no way of knowing when they’ll break up.
Hope this helps