What can you do not to be in a verbally abusive relationship besides just breaking up?
January 2, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
pinky* asked:
I know you can just break up. BUT how can you prevent it and fix the relationship?? seriously…
Marianela
I know you can just break up. BUT how can you prevent it and fix the relationship?? seriously…
Marianela
why not tell him if he doesnt stop verbally abusing u that u will leave him , maybe that way he will stop
Voice your opinion. And if you’re doing anything to start the verbal abuse; stop it.
by shutting ur mouth
Break up. You think it is going to stop if you ask nicely? HA! Take some advise from someone who has been there, leaving is the best thing.
you dont need to listen to these people who say ‘if youre doing anything to cause it than stop’. there’s no excuse for abuse of any kind, ever. Get counseling. ultimatums wont help; hell shape up for a while but he’ll get used to the fact that you forgave him and do it again. If counseling doesnt work then get out. Its not your job to ‘fix’ him and you have no obligation to take any of his crap.
Run like h**l. He’s a controlling and potentially violent person. Break up, but find some other reason than his verbal abuse, which I guarantee will NOT stop and will eventually become physical. A your age and with no legal recourse against him, you can NOT “fix” a relationship like this one. He will promise to stop, but I guarantee it will become worse and he won’t change. He may bother and threaten and even stalk you, whining about changing and getting closer to physical violence. You should tell your parents; you may eventually have to take out a restraining order against him.
YOU cant if u warned and warned before u cant FIX it its just gonna keep getting worse u know when u have deep **** and alot of probs in life that are inevitably gonna come arnd he’s gonna get worse and worse so just u either give him a FINAL warning and say that ur leaving if this happens ONE Little more time UR OUT —and seriously Get out !!