Should I be worried if my gf is getting back massages?
March 9, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Twilightsinger asked:
My gf used to like this guy before we met but he turned her down but now she gets back massages from him should I be worried or just let it go? I havent talked to her about it should I?
Veta
My gf used to like this guy before we met but he turned her down but now she gets back massages from him should I be worried or just let it go? I havent talked to her about it should I?
Veta
dump her, she likes him still
thats cheating in my book esp since HE turned her down which means its something she cant have. girls always want what they cant have.
Thats a very inappropriate situation. Shes not showing you the respect you deserve. You should talk to her about this and let her know that you are not ok with it. She needs to respect that and stop with the massages
What circumstances exactly is she getting these massages under ? is this guy a professional masseur ? and if so is she paying for these massages at a place where he works ?
If so I wouldn’t worry ‘too’ much about it, after all he did turn her down before and if its his job he probably gives massages to many women every day.
Maybe offer to give her a massage when she comes home tonight and see if she cancels him for your hands
If he is really a massage therapist, then you don’t have to be worried. Anyway you can tell her what you think and if she want to be with you, she may go in other place to take massage.
Hi,
It’s a bit of a situation. I’d have to agree that that’s a very inappropriate situation. And she’s definitely not showing you the respect you deserve. You need to talk to her about this.
I know this is rich coming from someone selling massage dvds
but if you really like her then learn how to give a massage yourself! That way she has no reason to see him. And if she continues to do so … I’m afraid the best thing for you to do is probably part ways. Save yourself from getting hurt.
All the best buddy.
Dave
I agree with David. It’s an inappropriate situation. Learn to massage yourself and then she has no reason to see him.
oh no it’s the worst that can happen ! Is he a therapist or what ? Is she lying ? This massage story does nto sound good, it spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E for me !
What a very unfair situation. Shes not showing the respect they deserve. You should talk to him about this and let you know that are not ok with it. He must respect and stop using massage
I would say you should not be and still if you have any you have any worries and doubts and feeling insecurity you can better clarify all the conditions and situation by gathering at one place and you would come to know about the person who is faulty.
I think you don’t have to worried if my gf is getting back massages… If you getting messages from gf than what’s the problem??? Let her to do messages !!!
If so I wouldn’t worry ‘too’ much about it
I would say you should not be and still if you have any you have any worries and doubts
She needs to respect that and stop with the massages
If you are truly in love, then she may not betray you.Your girl friend gets back massages,if this is the job she love very much,you should support your gf,believe her.Trust is very important between lovers.
I want to say is: don’t worry,Let nature take its course!
I agree with David. It’s an inappropriate situation. Learn to massage yourself and then she has no reason to see him.
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In my opinion,you don’t need to worried about anything.If you are love each just believe her, but if finally she leave you that just provide she is not worth for your love.
I know this is rich coming from someone selling massage dvds but if you really like her then learn how to give a massage yourself! That way she has no reason to see him.
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Get messages from him is entirelly normal.You feel worry it because you care her much , in your inner mind,you may want to fobidden her to get touch with him.
I think you shoud try your best to redeem her heart.
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I think you don’t worry about that because she is just massages out for the relaxation purpose only…
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If she’s fooling around like that then she doesn’t deserve your love. She’s confused really.
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