Comments on: Need advice on what to do about getting my ex GF back

By: stacie@Metal Garden Shed

stacie@Metal Garden Shed — Thu, 13 May 2010 14:29:31 +0000

Say ONE thing and then leave her to it. The importance will be in the one thing you say. It has to convey everything you’re feeling but with strength and not with desperation. Let her know that you’re there for her and you only want her but that you’re putting the ball in her court. Don’t faff about with options and stuff, it only draws it out. If you’re what she wants, she needs to make her move. Once you’ve given her the message (face to face or on the phone ONLY) then back off for good, unless she makes contact.

By: Katie

Katie — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 15:04:08 +0000

I really think you CAN get your ex back but you have to have a plan or else your going to make things worse. Know what I mean?

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hope it helps and good luck getting your ex back!!!

-Katie : )

By: Jawwad B

Jawwad B — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 11:50:06 +0000

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By: TONYA

TONYA — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:41:11 +0000

I AGREE WITH YOUR FRIENDS . GIVE HER THE SPACE SHE ASKED FOR. WHEN SHES READY SHE WILL TALK. ITS A GOOD SIGN THOUGH THAT SHE SENT U A MESSAGE. IT MEANS SHE IS GIVING THE SITUATION SOME THOUGHT. BE PATIENT. GOOD LUCK!!!!

By: vickie

vickie — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 01:26:52 +0000

wow, this sounds like the past 6 months of my life. it sounds like you have an understanding of her past. with that in mind, she is extremely vulnerable and will be extremely cautious, especially when things didn’t work out with you two the first time around. she is going to need a lot of affirmation and proof that you want her. proof in the form of actions, not words. and yes, she will need a lot of time and space. i know it’s hard to give because you don’t want to lose her, but it sounds like she is still interested in you. her current relationship complicates things, so she is very confused. it’s a fantastic sign that she is maintaining that communication, so keep that up, but don’t pressure her or push her too much. just let her know you are still there for her. as for yourself, keep busy and don’t do anything to make her mistrust you. remember — actions speak louder than words. i can go on and on, but you probably get the gist of this…

By: Delita

Delita — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:04:04 +0000

Let her be. She has a boyfriend now and apparently won’t break up with him.

She’s showing a lack of respect to her boyfriend by initiating secret conversations and such. Just so you know how she’s presenting herself – as a person who will not hesitate to cheat on someone. Go ahead and get with her, but you’re next to be cheated on.

By: Killah B

Killah B — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 00:59:12 +0000

not even in high school i have read so much

By: CalChick

CalChick — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 13:59:19 +0000

i think she is still scared of getting hurt but if you show her that nothing and i mean nothng can get in the way of you loving her then she will come back to you but you will just have to wait because if you love her that much you will wait as long as it takes and if she sees that then she will come back

By: Louai M

Louai M — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:38:30 +0000

hmm… i have 2 choices for you! 1.Get her a gift 2.I dont reccomend you do this but go emo

By: dallasgirlhottie

dallasgirlhottie — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:43:33 +0000

Tell her how you feel, and if she feels the same way then you guys can work through the past