need advice on getting gf back?
November 13, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
theoneandonly4013 asked:
so my gf tells me one day she wants to break up and its beacuse my mom dosent like her (we have been dateing almost 3 years) and we spent to much time together, but everyday since we broke up she has called me and asked me to hang out with her (about 2 weeks now) she has stoped saying i love you jsut like when shes mad at me but we still kiss, hold hands, cuddle and have sex, a few days ago i asked her if she thinks we wil get back together and she said “i hope so” besides the “single” status and us not talking as much wen we arnt together (wich is at night from like midnight till about 2 in the afternoon)
so my gf tells me one day she wants to break up and its beacuse my mom dosent like her (we have been dateing almost 3 years) and we spent to much time together, but everyday since we broke up she has called me and asked me to hang out with her (about 2 weeks now) she has stoped saying i love you jsut like when shes mad at me but we still kiss, hold hands, cuddle and have sex, a few days ago i asked her if she thinks we wil get back together and she said “i hope so” besides the “single” status and us not talking as much wen we arnt together (wich is at night from like midnight till about 2 in the afternoon)
can anyone shed light on what they thinki have to do to get her back? im kinda confused about the whole situation to be honest
no flaming please
well we dont really hang at my house cuz of my mother lol so it shouldnt matter that much and i told her already my mom dosent matter at all
Jean
It sounds very possible that you can get back with her. You should just find out why her mother doesn’t like you so you can try to fix it. It’ll be alot easier to date out in the open without constantly watching your back.
she ztryin to make it so ur not officially going out for ur mom but u kinda r
you haven’t broekn up yet
your still together
she just wants you to give her more attention
which she is getting becaue your trying so hard to make it better
and she knows if she makes you think you have a chance your gonna work hard to get her back
girls a manipulative and crazy, my girlfriends done it to me, my twin sister has done it to her boyfriends
so dont worry about it just keep doing what your doing and keep showing her you care and she will snap out of the pretending
maybe you have been going out so long that she feels she needs to try something else, kinda like that movie my best friends girl. Or she just wants to feel that spark like when you to first met. Try taking her out and recreating your first date or something equally romantic.
She dosen’t love you TRUST me. Love don’t work that way. She likes you but dosen’t love you like you do. But I mean if you want her back try talking to your mom and if she tries to accept your GF maybe ya can get back together.
Send her some flowers or some candy. Write her a poem or a letter. Send her a heartfelt card asking for her apology and tell her how much you have missed not being a couple as you were. Sounds like if your still cuddleing she feels the same way and will respond to your new gestures. Speak your heart and don’t lose what you have because of someone elses opinion.
brow the ‘ give and take thing’ – fight for her brow.,.,find that ways or let her remind why you should be back together.,. dat will help i guess..
You gotta really ask yourself if this girl is really down for you.
If she was, would she break up with you?
All that things that you both are doing together could slowly fade away, and could really mess up the thought of getting back with her.
You gotta watch out and ask her about getting back with you. She could be playing this game just to **** you over..
Trust me..I’ve seen it. They get you all sprung after a break up..then when you give all your attention and love to them, BOOM!!
It’s over..and they’re in their corner smiling at you.
Forget this…it either goes one way or another. If you truly love her..ask her to get back with you..If she agrees, then it means she loves you..If not, then get out of it before you get even more hurt.
to me it sounds like she is using you kinda of. so at the moment she doesn’t love you
but do something special for her so she knows that you still care for her n everything.
n talk to your mom about her n find out why she doesn’t like her. n ask your mom if she will be willing to accept her n not
be hatin on her.
Your partner is full of insecurities .. If they were not together .. This situation will continue to have confused .. I think that you free yourself and make a new beginning .. take the opportunity to meet more people .. And did not follow so immersed in a dark and uncertain situation
Umm…Dude it sounds like you never broke up. What is the difference except in what you tell other people. Just keep referring to her as your girlfriend, she’ll catch on.