My gf said she lost her feelings for me and decided to leave me. I want her back. What should I do?
March 12, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
greenbucks asked:
She does not want to talk about the breakup because it hurts her and me. And that is all I want to do is talk about it. We had a great relationship and at one time did everything together and told each other everything. And for the past month it has been the opposite. I asked her if there is any chance for us to get back together and she said she does not know. She said she needs time and space. What do I do? Please help.
Millard
She does not want to talk about the breakup because it hurts her and me. And that is all I want to do is talk about it. We had a great relationship and at one time did everything together and told each other everything. And for the past month it has been the opposite. I asked her if there is any chance for us to get back together and she said she does not know. She said she needs time and space. What do I do? Please help.
Millard
Give her time and space =)
if she truely loves u she’ll come back. Maybe she is just going hrough a difficult time or sumthing…
she’ll realize she misses and and will come back in time. Leave her be… and try to move on. Guard ur heart, so that she doesn’t break it more. =(
stay positive about life! after all u do hav ur whole life ahead of u! *hugs* yay be happy!
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It depends if your really into her and been goin out for along time you should chase her. Not in a stalker kind of way tho. But if you also lost feelings for her u should replace her.
Do exactly what she is asking of you – give her time and space. Don’t push her, don’t “talk about it”, and see what happens from there.
ahhh this exactly happened to me…well if she has lost feelings for you..there must be a good reason y she’s lost feelings for u..could it hav been somethin you had said to her which really hurt her feeling or hav u been neglecting her..or in other cases has she just moved on frm u…trust me dude..i knw its hard bt to try and gt her bak is the most hardest thing…i lost my gf a couple ov months ago and i tried 2 gt her bak so many times…its reali no point..because at the end ov the day u will find sum1 better…n its no point going back because you cant force sum1 to love you and just 2 be there because of u..i know this will be hard especially if its your first true love…
I, too, am one to always one want answers when it comes to relationship issues, especially when someone breaks up with me. Do you know why she “fell out of love”? You didn’t say you knew why she left….or if maybe it had something to do with what you did. If she won’t tell you why she left you, I would be EXTREMLY SUSPICIOUS!
If it was random and out of the blue or it was just becuase she “fell out of love”, maybe she does need space to just realize you are the one. But she should tell you why! If she doesn’t, then I would be suspcicious that something else was going on. There has to be a reason why something so good went so bad as to end it. Does she have past relationship issues? Maybe she was insecure? Maybe you didn’t make her feel loved enough? I **** to be the devil’s advocate, but since you didn’t say why you broke up, I guess I can’t say what I would do. Either way, she should give you an explanation as to why so you can have closure. When a relationship is ended by the other person, the only right thing to do is give closure. If she doesnt, she is either stringing you along until she decides she wants you, or really is just doing it to test you. In any of these circumstances, I would say she should respect you enough to give you closure…and she isn’t. Why does she need space? To decide if you are good enough for her? Either way, she doesn’t sound very nice if she isn’t telling you what’s going on. Breaking up with a person is painful…and she should recognize that you are very hurt and need closure. Don’t wait around and be played…. guard your heart! Be cautious that she isn’t telling you everything!
It’s unfair to you. You at least deserve some kind of explanation. Try telling her this, but be ready for her response. The answer might be what she already told you, that she no longer has the same feelings for you. Sometimes it is that simple.
If she still refuses to talk about it the only thing you can do is wait. You are in an impossible situation. She has already made up her mind and doesn’t want to talk to you about it. Give her space and time and see what happens. It sucks, but you don’t have many options.
it sucks…i made a gf..she was my dream girl..she had jst had a breakup…i did ask her was i a rebound she said no….v lasted wat 2days she broke up no reason no nthin…jst said its har dfor her and me being a year younger to her…its nt practical…takin abt it she said she was over me jst like tht then…..nw she is back with her old bf…i dnt c her happy cuz he keeps her in all sorts of restrictions…but wat can b done…tried to help her….i even heard….tht i wasnt even ur gf…i love the girl…c her everyday…travels with me….but wat can i do..i dnt knw..im jst wacky….there is nthin u can do..except b yourself….if u dnt have the lines….u jst cant win..i think…its a bite abt fate….and luck…i think like me…U LACK IT 2….good luck..gettin over her…cuz i cant get over myin…BIG DEAL…its another challenge life has thrown and im upto it…i do sum things at times…like sing songs wen she is leaving the bus…all i get is a big IGNORE….breaks my heart…
but still its sumthin like never happened to me b4..we still cross eyes sumtimes…and time stops there for me….but then…i hate this….breakups suck…..especially wen u love sum1…i wanted to be with her forever but forever jst lasted 2 days…sad mayb…broken yes…hurt yeap…down yessy….but im up for a new beginning…a new life
According to me If she will not ready to leave with you then don’t do any try. Moreover feelings is more important in the LOVE. Once people lost feelings then they can’t leave happy with the love one.
Time and space may be the best thing. Just wait a bit, and maybe then you might be able to win her back.
Good luck
Moreover feelings is more important in the love.It depends if your really into her and been goin out for along time you should chase her.You are in an impossible situation.She has already made up her mind and doesn’t want to talk to you about it.