my ex-gf and i are getting back together, what do i do?
April 30, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
shrimpmc asked:
i recently move across country, but now am coming back, what do i do? should we start over and take it slow, or pick up where we left off? she says i hurt her when we broke up, please help
we broke up when i moved but i am coming back, she called me and asked to get back together
Rodrigo
i recently move across country, but now am coming back, what do i do? should we start over and take it slow, or pick up where we left off? she says i hurt her when we broke up, please help
we broke up when i moved but i am coming back, she called me and asked to get back together
Rodrigo
Have *** with her
Not enough information to answer your question. Find out how you hurt her and avoid doing that. Take it slow and see what happens. Don’t act like nothing has changed, or that will upset her.
Do nothing. Your relationship was in the past so leave it there. Be friends at most but nothing more.
well.. it depends how you hurt her when you broke up.. you’ll have to make up for that first. then things should sorta pick up where you left off.
run and don’t look back. leave it alone. it is over let it stay over.
oho ,
so you were the one who broke up with her ?
you better say sorry .,
if you want to get back with her ,
tell her why you had to break up with her ,
it’s hard for a girl to be left there .,
better start over and take it slow .,
if you pick up where you left ,
it will only remind her that you hurt her ,
Talk and revealuate the errors that cause the relationship to fail the first time. Usually the success rate of dating an ex again is not in your favor, but it’s worth a try!
Good luck!
Very quickly remember why you broke up and slap yourself in the face to wake yourself up and run as fast as you can.
If you decide to get back together, see how it goes. You’ll find it will just naturally develop. Don’t over think it.
well, did u only breakup with her b/c u moved across the country? if u did, explain that to her…. she should understand. tell her that u were concerned about a longdistance relationship not working out. then u guys can start a little bit slower than when u left off, but u dont need to rebuilt the relationship from scratch. there is probably still some spark in ur relationship! good luck.
in my opinion i would take it slow and try and reconnect with her when you go back cause she may have lost the click when you left but you will never know on till you see her you will be able to tell when you see her if she really likes you but if she just looks at you blank don’t ever go for her but by the sounds of it she was hurt badly but who knows i don’t know why you left it may of been for college or something like that but hopefully she knows why you left her..
best of luck i really hope everything picks up good
How long have you been “gone”? Does she want to “start over”? If so, you must talk, talk, talk…ensure you know what you want from this relationship to avoid it ending badly again. Make certain she tells you what her expectations are as well so you can have a firm knowledge of each other’s needs and wants and whether you are both comfortable with all the expectations. Let her express her feelings on why you “hurt” her and be open about why you broke up with her in the first place.
With a solid knowledge on both parts, you will be able to go forward in a positive fresh beginning.
Dont bother, she will never let you hear the end of it when you broke up with her.
Thats true ,we don’t know each other n still i’m trying to solve ur problem . ok then i think first u should decide urself that u still luv her or not . Take ur decision accordingly ……
I suggest having *** with her.
If you love a lot to your ex girlfriend then start slow and try and reconnect with her. If you give her time then all is well. Moreover Talk and revealuate the errors that cause the relationship to fail the first time.
If you both have the same feeling in each other, you should pick up where you leave. however, you should take care of your new relationship.
By the way, it is a good tattoo on the arm.
That’s nice to hear that you are getting back together, I think you should start slow and if possible forgets everything that was the reason for your breakup. Start a new life with the same love you used to do.