Is there any hope getting back together with my gf?
November 13, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
B2theRandon84 asked:
I broke up with my gf a couple of weeks ago and I’m wondering if there is anything I can do to get her back.I miss her terribly and she means the world to me.I dated this girl for 2 1/2 years on and off and things had been really great.The reason why we broke up is because I didn’t let her be herself.I expected her to spend 100% of her free time with me and i didn’t accept the fact that she wasnt ready for that and maybe she never will.Everytime she went out I expected her to invite me along.In the process I forgot about my friends and everytime I would go out I had to be with her.I’ve accepted the fact that she needs to be herself,and have time to go out with the girls without me around.She also said that I’m not the same person that she fell in love with.I used to have all the self confidence in the world be happy and spend time with my friends without her around.And things were great during those times.I dont know what happend to me.do I have any hope and is it too late for us?
Also i gave my ex her space in the beginning. things were not always like this. its not like she had been putting up with this for 2 1/2 years…
Leopoldo
I broke up with my gf a couple of weeks ago and I’m wondering if there is anything I can do to get her back.I miss her terribly and she means the world to me.I dated this girl for 2 1/2 years on and off and things had been really great.The reason why we broke up is because I didn’t let her be herself.I expected her to spend 100% of her free time with me and i didn’t accept the fact that she wasnt ready for that and maybe she never will.Everytime she went out I expected her to invite me along.In the process I forgot about my friends and everytime I would go out I had to be with her.I’ve accepted the fact that she needs to be herself,and have time to go out with the girls without me around.She also said that I’m not the same person that she fell in love with.I used to have all the self confidence in the world be happy and spend time with my friends without her around.And things were great during those times.I dont know what happend to me.do I have any hope and is it too late for us?
Also i gave my ex her space in the beginning. things were not always like this. its not like she had been putting up with this for 2 1/2 years…
Leopoldo
Probably not . It seems like you made her feel tied up . Like you didn’t trust her . Women don’t like that the guy there with expects them to be around them 24/7 . You should have realized this in the beginning . She put up with this for 2 1/2 yrs . She ‘s probably better off without you because she now has her freedom
its not too late just stop breathing down her neck everyone needs space…even you
Just tell her that you want another chance. Explain that you understand she needs her space, and you won’t get overprotective last time. Don’t keep asking though if she keeps saying no. It’ll bug her and she will just get sick of it quickly
I hope you guys get back together
Zoey
Only if you can let her live freely. She can spend her time with you, also can spend with others, like her mother. I think she loves you and is missing you, but she want you to respect her.
Yer i agree, she has the taste of freedom, she wont come back to the feeling of being trapped in a cage….
You should talk to her and apologize for what you did. If she still loves you, she will understand and forgive u and maybe get back to you.
People who are in deep pain from a break up have a tendency to do the exact OPPOSITE of what you should do. So I’m acting fast to try and get you to stop before any damage is done. In any disaster the first step is to stop the bleeding and then fix the problem.
I`m with ndosejns,that`s the worst thing you could possibly do,that and being crazy jealous.Those are the 2 thing you never do!And as for apologizing and getting back together,try it but don`t be too pushy,if she don`t want it she don`t want it,move on.
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