Is it wrong breaking up with your boyfriend over the phone?
January 12, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
LAALAAALAAAAA asked:
Is it bad to break up with your boyfriend over the phone? And why is it bad ?
Rickie
Is it bad to break up with your boyfriend over the phone? And why is it bad ?
Rickie
Yeah it is bad….sorta makes you look like a coward.
yes its very bad unless he treats u wrong but if everything was fine then ask him out and let him down gently
If you two are at at distance and it can’t be done in person, then it’s okay…otherwise its cowardly and should be done face-to-face. Avoiding being in front of that person when you break up with them is crappy. If you are going to end it, they ought to be able to see you when it happens. Doing it any other way is avoiding the other person’s direct reaction because it might be uncomfortable for you (selfish).
If you aren’t going to break up with people with compassion and respect, then you’ve no business dating. It’s not all about the fun part…things often end and you should end it with them, with the courtesy you’d hope someone would end it with you. Not avoiding being uncomfortable and then going on with your life as if the call were a wrong number.
it’s bad for anyone to break up with another person over the phone. Once you’ve been close enough to be involved with each other you should have respect and decency to tell them something like that to their face. You own it to them. It brings shame to the game!
Yes, always do the important stuff face-to-face. Anything else makes you look cowardly, ridiculous, and silly.
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best,
Martin