I want my gf back. this si waht she said. is this good? do I have a chance of getting her back?
March 14, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Girish J asked:
Hi all i need some advice. My girlfiend and I have been goin out for 7 months.i wsa insecure about myself and did something stupid (didnt cheat) to test her trust in me she found out was very mad and we broke up. Been about a month, we’ve ben eamiling & this is what she said “I want you to know that I don’t really know what’s going to happen when we meet & and can’t promise you that things are just gonna be like before and we’ll be a happy couple. There’s alot of stuff we need to talk about when we do eventually see each other and like I’ve always said, I don’t hold grudges but it’s hard to forget certain things & I don’t know if we can go back. Things could go either way and who knows, you might find you don’t feel the same way about me..or maybe you’ll meet the girl of your dreams this summer…I don’t really know what’s going to happen.What I do know is that you are a good person & I’m willing to sit down and see if we can work things out..but neither of us knows how that will out”
Elizabeth
Hi all i need some advice. My girlfiend and I have been goin out for 7 months.i wsa insecure about myself and did something stupid (didnt cheat) to test her trust in me she found out was very mad and we broke up. Been about a month, we’ve ben eamiling & this is what she said “I want you to know that I don’t really know what’s going to happen when we meet & and can’t promise you that things are just gonna be like before and we’ll be a happy couple. There’s alot of stuff we need to talk about when we do eventually see each other and like I’ve always said, I don’t hold grudges but it’s hard to forget certain things & I don’t know if we can go back. Things could go either way and who knows, you might find you don’t feel the same way about me..or maybe you’ll meet the girl of your dreams this summer…I don’t really know what’s going to happen.What I do know is that you are a good person & I’m willing to sit down and see if we can work things out..but neither of us knows how that will out”
Elizabeth
wow, ok it doesnt really mean “yeah lets get back together” but at the same time shes not blowing you off. From what i read, she still likes you and wants to work things out, but isnt sure if thats gonna happen. She mentioned that she doesnt hold grudges, but doesnt forget things easily. Which is just her saying that you really hurt her and she just needs time to eventually get over it. I think you should both talk and see what happens from there. Dont be stupid either. TALK. Seriously, talk to her and let her know how you feel. Even if you think “No i cant say that, what will my buddies think!?!” If you really like her and are willing to work things out then just be yourself and let her know how you truly feel. Really it works! Take it from someone who has experienced it with her b/f!!
it means that she has already met someone else and she is trying to figure out how to break it off with you in a way to keep you from becoming violent
Trust is one of the most important foundation in a relationship whether you’re just dating or married. When trust is broken, it is very hard to gain it back.