Hubby in Iraq — while he’s gone, I’m “getting with” a gf to meet needs — need to tell him when he gets back?
August 9, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Kitty Anon asked:
I feel really bad about this but I need something and figure it’s better than being w/a man besides hubby… help?
Margot
I feel really bad about this but I need something and figure it’s better than being w/a man besides hubby… help?
Margot
You are disgusting.I bet your poor husband will leave you,and he should.
you don’t feel bad enough. i think you need to respect the sanctity of your marriage before your *** drive!!!!!
It’s cheating either way, but who knows, maybe your hubby’s into it and will want to continue it when he gets back.
Mine’s deployed too and I would NEVER do that to him. I love him.
Invite him to join you two when he gets back!
Slags like you make me sick.
You little *****! What if he finds out?!!? And DIES!? What will he think on his dying breath. Probably BETRYAL!
gross….dont tell him.
Honestly, I would tell him. It’s having an affair whether you’re with a man or a woman… and your spouse deserves to know.
Cheating is cheating, whether you do so with a male or a female. While your husband is in Iraq doing his duty, you can’t stay true to him like most of the wives are doing with regards to their spouses serving there as well? Shame on you. If you cheat, he should part ways with you as I believe he deserves someone who will be faithful to him ALWAYS.
I think that it is wrong what you are doing. While he is out serving his country, you are looking like a fool. Yes i think that you should tell him, he has every right to know what you are doing to him behind his back. Just remember what comes around goes around.
No it isn’t better. Cheating is cheating! If you need to be satisfied. Do it yourself. There is no excuse for what you have done. I think you have found out you would rather be with a female than a male and now you are looking for an excuse for that. You need to be honest with yourself first and foremost. Telling him won’t do anything to strengthen your marriage but you do need to go to counseling when he returns. I’m ashamed to have you in the same *** category as I am. Stop what you are doing right now.
Is this what you said at your wedding?
“You will be asked to promise before God, your friends and your families, that you will love, comfort, honour and protect your partner and BE FAITHFUL to them as long as you both shall live.”
THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE!!!!
There are adult stores all over the place that would help you with your needs.
No! Since you don’t feel that you can ‘do without’ while hubby is gone, then that is your decision and having made it, YOU have to be able to live with it. Your wanting to confess to hubby when he gets home is saying that you really can’t shoulder your decision alone; that you want to lay some of it off on him when he gets back. Sounds like you really can’t live with your decision….therefore, maybe you should make a decision you can live with.
You sick freak.
If that’s what you’re after, just do that on your own. xp
Tough call. All adultery is bad, and you should really be ashamed of yourself. I mean, *really* ashamed.
That being said, it’s probably not as bad to do that with a female than with another man. Heck, your hubby might even be into that sort of thing!
As for telling him, I think he has the right to know. But he also has the right to divorce you because of it, too.
It doesn’t matter if you “get your needs”, as you put it from a man or a woman, it’s still cheating either way. Some will say he’s probably cheating, but maybe he isn’t. Have you thought about what state of mind he will be in when he comes home anyway. And then you want to drop that kind of a shocker on him. You really need to get your priorities straight and end the crap with your friend. If you absolutely can’t control yourself then go to an adult store and pick up some gadgets, they will work wonders. You should have thought about these things before marrying a guy in the military. My husband is away for long periods of time, I have NEVER cheated and I have an extremely high *** drive, with I have a few gadgets for when it gets bad. He knows about them and they put his mind at ease, besides it doesn’t matter who your with you can still bring disease into your marriage, you should have more respect for your husband, look at where he is and you can’t have a little self control, I would be way to worried about him 24/7 to even think about getting a little or to even get horny
You should be ashamed of yourself. He’s over there, fighting for this country’s freedom,. putting his life on the line every day and all you can think about is your “needs”?.. What about him, This will probably crush him. He may think you are at home, praying for his safe return, but instead, you become a *******? You really are disgusting. I don’t usually say harsh things to people, but you deserve it if he leaves you. Then you can go back and get what you “need” from gf yuck!!!!!
hmm…. now why don’t i believe you………….
how would you feel if he found a woman over there to meet his needs until its time for him to come home ? just because your with a woman doesn’t mean its alright…. I really hope with all my being he’s doing the same too you. you don’t deserve him you should be so ashamed of your self. your a selfish vile person he’s in Iraq fighting for this country and YOUR freedom and all you can think about is getting off….
YOUR ARE TRULY DISGUSTING
Remember your wedding vows “:For better or for worse”He;’s getting the “worse.”
Oink oink.
Why didn’t you just get a ********?
i think you should set it up for a *********…..he would LOVE it!
I really **** deployment widows they give the rest of a bad name. It doesn’t matter if its with a man or a woman. I would tell him when he gets back and be prepared for whatever happens. You made the bed no you can lie in it.
Cheating is cheating whether its with a man or woman. You should be ashamed. He will probably want a divorce.
Why would you want to do that? Can you do that and still be straight?