How to break up without breaking a heart?
December 29, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
*~D3$T!NY~* asked:
I want to break up with my bf but i still want us to be close how should i do it??
Shiloh
I want to break up with my bf but i still want us to be close how should i do it??
Shiloh
do this first
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tell him over the phone that you just want to be friends and you want them to still be close that you just need space for a while and tell to wait for you
and if he just dont take then i dont know what to tell ya then
its a bite impossible, put yourself in his shoe its very hard may be after a while he will understand but it still difficult especially if he loves you. my advice is to write him a letter tell him all what is in your mind and that you can’t feel the passion that were between the two of you, and that you still love him so much not as a lover but as a good friend.
tell him that you don’t want lose him, and that it was hard for you to make this decision but after all it was the wisest thing to do so that u wont cheat on him ofr lie to him.
wish u all the best and Good Luck
Anything abrupt hurts worst than a transition. Phases out of sleeping together. If you usually talk 5-6 times a day, ease down to one. Limit meetings. He’ll notice, and you can say, “I’d like to phase out of the relationship.” After a month or two, he’ll be used to not hearing your voice and seeing you at home, etc.
This is much less impactfull than him waking up one day, and all at once you’re gone! He may rebel againt the transition, but be mild and there for him when he’s ready.
You don’t love her. If you don’t think she’s the most beautiful girl in the whole world, you don’t love her. You just like her lots.Just tell her it’s not going to work anyway and then do like little nick said and turn off your computer/block her /turn off your mobile/whatever.