How should I go about getting my Ex GF back?
March 24, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Mike asked:
We have been together for over 2 years, there has been a tragedy in her life so we keep breaking up…She still tells me shes in love but says she wants to find herself….i spent the night with her couple times this week, then told her i couldnt handle not being together…. Went out with the guys the other night and drunk dialed the hell out of her(stupid mistake)….Called her all day the next day and finally got her to pick up and of course i said something rude to her on the phone the night before, i appologized…I guess what I am asking is whats the best way to open her eyes and make her realize that if she loves me she should be with me before the oppurtunity closes?
Tabatha
We have been together for over 2 years, there has been a tragedy in her life so we keep breaking up…She still tells me shes in love but says she wants to find herself….i spent the night with her couple times this week, then told her i couldnt handle not being together…. Went out with the guys the other night and drunk dialed the hell out of her(stupid mistake)….Called her all day the next day and finally got her to pick up and of course i said something rude to her on the phone the night before, i appologized…I guess what I am asking is whats the best way to open her eyes and make her realize that if she loves me she should be with me before the oppurtunity closes?
Tabatha
Well my best advice is to do what you do best. If you like to write, write a poem, If you love to sing, Sing a song. Just do what you do best.
Just let her know you are there for her. But this is something she needs to do to figure things out. You can’t force people to think a certain way. Take the space, u dont know it, but it could be unhealthy for you.
Never drink and dial. (Movie, sideways.) You could try having a hart felt talk with her. Lay it all out on the table. How you feel about her and where you want things to go. Don’t ask for your answer right then. Tell her you would like her to listen and think about it for a few days. If she can’t make the commitment you can not be a one nighter any more either. good luck.
there was nothing a man can do to get back to me, I was bored and wanted someone new. So id just say find another girl! I finally found the right person and have been together two years. after two months if shes bored and forget her shes not right for you:)
First, do not chase after her. Remember that when you are chasing, you are positioning yourself as a pesky salesmen. No one, including your ex-girlfriend likes to be harassed. If she is coming back to you, it must be on her own free will.
Instead of telling bad words, why don’t you show your sweetness. It is good that you will put some effort like cooking some food for her or if you can write a song/poem.
Women want to know that they are cherished and important and desired and a way to do this is to show them romance and passion! You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the breakup. You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the breakup.
This is something you must do to understand things. You can not force people to think a certain way. Take the space, do u know, but it could be bad for you.
I think she needs time to change herself. You should not feel sad and not require anything from her. She can not satisfy your needs now. What you can do is to understand her better and better.If you understand her very well, you can do something for her, then you two will not both immerse in sadness.Just let you two happy. This is a way of expressing love. Both of you live a happy life is more important.
You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the breakup. You need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel about the breakup.
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After reading all the posts, I agree with the first.
Write a poem.
Poetry allows you to express your heart.
Your love should then understand your feelings.
Just be true to yourself…. It’s the most important thing to do…
Write a letter with all your real feelings in, tell her how much you care, and that you understand about her need for space after such pain but that you are willing to give her that space whenever she needs it.
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What was the tragedy that happened to her?
You know the saying “Actions speak louder than words”. But have you also heard that “Drunken words are sober thoughts”?
You need to show you that you want to be with you and stop calling her when you’re drunk. You will make one step forward, then about 5 steps back. Show her that you’re there for her and you care about her. Have you thought about writing a letter to her? No email.. a written letter. Women like that kind of stuff. It shows you took the time out to really think about her and the relationship.
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