How not to be paranoid about girlfriend breaking up with me?
January 5, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
bullfan82 asked:
Me and my girlfriend of 3 weeks have been going fine, have gone out a lot and everything.
Me and my girlfriend of 3 weeks have been going fine, have gone out a lot and everything.
Its just that after the last couple times of seeing her, I feel paranoid that shes going to break up with me.
Is there a way to help me stop worrying or is it just going to happen?
Elliot
dont be so scared.. have u done anything wrong that would make her break up with you??? or maybe if she is maybe she is losing interest
I cant see why you feel this way to be honest if everything is going fine an you are both happy with each other its you that needs to stop thinking the way you do, maybe your scared she will break up with you but she has to have a reason for that an with no reason it wont happen, you really need to stop thinking the way you do an concentrate on what you have with your gf more so I feel, you are only putting false worry on yourself thinking this way. good luck
I don’t get the idea on going back together when you’re totally hurt and wanting to move on.
Be yourself and don’t worry about it.
If you have to change or be someone you really are not, it may work for a while. But eventually you will fail.
If it works out by you being yourself, then you might have just found the right girl for you. But if it doesn’t, then you are even luckier.
All you can do is try to think rationally.
Take a step back, try and get a hobby that keeps you entertained and relaxed, that way you won’t be so paranoid. If it’s really that bad, you should also talk to her about it, but not in a begging needy way, in a reasonable and calm fashion.
I have been seeing a girl for the last 6 months. She has a lot of guy friends and i feel like i she could run off with one of them at any moment. She hasnt give me any reason to think this as we tall every day. It is driving me mad and i want to stop thinking about it. I know i am supposed to think that there is no one out there better for her than me as we are best friends also. But i cant help but doubt myself and the relationship. We broke up a few days ago and she said the only way we can be together is if i change but i dont know how to stop feeling these negative thoughts.