how do i keep in contact with my best friend without my gf getting jealous?
March 24, 2008 by admin
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Kidd asked:
my gf gets jealous because i make sure i talk to my best friend everyday. they both have different places/importance in my life, so i really think don’t get why the jealousy, i have clearly told my gf i lover her and not my best friend. but she keeps doubting us. any ideas?
Margareta
my gf gets jealous because i make sure i talk to my best friend everyday. they both have different places/importance in my life, so i really think don’t get why the jealousy, i have clearly told my gf i lover her and not my best friend. but she keeps doubting us. any ideas?
Margareta
i really think if you love your gf ditch that best friend….. thats what i did.. and at the end it was totally worth it!!
You need to decide what kind of relationship you want to have with a girl. Do you want to be clingy and dependent on each other, or do you want to have lives outside of each other once in a while? Do you want to be able to make your own decisions, or have to discuss everything with someone else?
If you don’t want this girl making all of your decisions for you (like telling you who you can and can not talk to), you need to set her straight. Tell her she either accepts your relationship with your other friends, or she needs to end her relationship with you.
It’s not worth losing friends. A good, loyal friend is very hard to come by. Don’t take it for granted.
how about letting your gf meets ur best friend
Start by calling your best friend once a week instead of every day. That’s a little much. Sounds like your gf has some insecurities and only you can reinforce that she is the one you want. I went through this before and I refused to give up my best friend but I did take our relationship down a notch or 2. Finally my bf understood and learned to trust me.
well you could try to have them hang out together, that way your gf can see the type of relationship you have, but if your girlfriend doesn’t trust you, and is gonna try to dictate who you can be friends with, maybe she isn’t the girl for you.
child’s play. your girlfriend is just insecure. i guess you have to give her more than just word that there isn’t anything between you guys. maybe try taking your girl out and hangout with her. its complicated when the girl is jealous of another girl. best thing to do have them both come out and chill do things together. maybe she’ll get a different idea about you guys. And do not push a friend away just for a girl. Girlfriends come and go at any moment but a best friend stay with you through these times. weigh it out. don’t do anything stupid pushing your friend away because of your girl is jealous of her.
you are right about how she shouldn’t get jealous but its just human nature (trust me even if you think you would not you would get jealous also) you didn’t mention if your friend was a female..but I’m assuming so
and no you should never have to ‘ditch’ any of your friends..i did for my bf and it was totally not worth it. just explain to her over and over until she realizes that you and your friends are well just friends, maybe they can become friends as well.. and show her extra affection to show her how much you really do love her..and maybe you should just limit your talking to your friend also.
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It seems you feel possessive about him rather than feeling jealous.Best friends are often like this. But it’s great to know that both of you are still best of friends.If you like the girl then you go and tell him that she is just perfect for him.Your girlfriend is neither jealous nor possessive. She just wants to trust you and be respected.That’s right,you’re being disrespectful.
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I think that honesty is the best option for you. You should everything to you gf about your friend. I suggest that take both them out and give them time to understand each other.