How do I get back with my gf?
March 29, 2009 by admin
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plutopoptarts asked:
So my first gf broke up with me sunday and I still like her and I’m pretty sure she still likes me so how do I get back with her? Do I just ask if we can get back together or something? I’m 18 and shes 17 and we went out for 2 months and idk why she broke up with me, she never would say, but I think its b/c she never opened up b/c she was afraid of getting hurt again.
Edna
So my first gf broke up with me sunday and I still like her and I’m pretty sure she still likes me so how do I get back with her? Do I just ask if we can get back together or something? I’m 18 and shes 17 and we went out for 2 months and idk why she broke up with me, she never would say, but I think its b/c she never opened up b/c she was afraid of getting hurt again.
Edna
ask her u can get back together if she says no ask her why (then at least u ll know wat u did wrong)
First, ask her whats the reason why she came up with such decision like that. Then try to reconcile, promise to fix it and never do it again…
Ask her out again
This reminds me of a breakup I had. I thought everything was going fine. She invited me over for dinner and afterward she dropped the bomb. She wanted to breakup and never see me again. She wouldn’t even tell me why. I didn’t know what to do. After a week of moping around, I had enough. I went to her sister and she told me that my girlfriend was scared, really scared. She said that my girlfriend really cared for me. She suggested that I take it slow and call her once in a while and maybe send her a card or flowers. Guess what? It worked!
Let time heal the rift first before asking her out again.
I always believe even if you get back together, things will never be the same again.
Chill man. There are still loads of good girls outside.
I usto be the same way. Id have a boyfriend for a few months and then break up with him because he was getting to close and i like to keep guys at a distance. And there was nothing a guy could do to get back with me i was bored and i wanted someone new. So id say just find another girl! I finally found the right guy and we’ve been together 2yrs. so after 2 months shes already bored just forget about her shes not right for you:)
I think you need to give her sometime. There might be some reason she is holding back. Just hang with her first to see what happens next.
fix whatever it was that broke you all up and give her flowers or something expensive!!
I have a trick that you might need to use. We all change and part of your natural transformation can affect your relationship. You might think that you were when you met. Remember, he fell in love with this person.
Breakups are hard, especially if you really care about your girlfriend and want her to be an important part of your life. I know, you’re heartbroken, you’re emotional, you’re in pain. But let me reassure you: There is still hope! So always do that thing what your heart says & always be honest with GF..
Be honest to yourself and ask yourself if her fear to be hurt again is justified. If not, and your intentions are sincere, open the conversation with her and try to discuss het fears.
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There was nothing a guy could do to get back with me i was bored and i wanted someone new. So id say just find another girl!
if a woman breaks up with you it means that you did something bad, and you have been doing it over and over again. If you want her back give her some time to calm down and then either emeil – call -text- write a letter asking how you could improve to make things work. It may make her upset even more because asking her about improvement shows that you have been dumb empugh to not see the obvious. So, just ask her what YOU should do to make things work. Give her flowers. women LOVE gentlemen . Be a genntleman for her , not an ass. I broke up with my BF of 4 years because I started feeling TIRED of his crap. I would say over and over again to stop disrespecting me and he would improve for a while and then go back to his old ways. I had enough. I dumped him and it has been 1 month of no communication and I feel very happy. No mo disrespectful ass *ole in my life .
You can try to save your relationship if both of your guys still love each other!
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I always believe even if you get back together, things will never be the same again.
There might be some reason she is holding back. Just hang with her first to see what happens next.
Generally, women have compared to others, when they face failure. In fact, there are a number of men who simply evade the women who face immediate rupture.
Admit you’re wrong and promise to be a better lover for her. It’s not going to be easy but try to be persistent in what you do. Good luck!
Don’t push it whatever you do, you will put her off for good. Gently ask her what the reason was, tell her how much you like her and assure her that you would never hurt her like she has been before. Good luck.
Thanks for the great tips!
I think its time to move on, it either works the first time or its very unlikely to not work at all.
to make things work. Give her flowers. women LOVE gentlemen . Be a genntleman for her , not an ass. I broke up with my BF of 4 years because I started feeling TIRED of his crap. I would say over and over again to stop disrespecting me and he would improve for a while and then go back to his old ways. I had enough. I dumped
I personally think out that jealous would best option towards getting your ex girl friend back.Try to chat with his friend and avoid him try these things three or four days and than chat out with your girl friend normally way these would might be work out..
Under no circumstances ask her back if you really want her. Leave it at least two weeks before you contact her. Tell her you realize that you need more experience of life. There are many fish in the sea and you are going to play the field for a while. If she REALLY likes you this will have just the desired effect. She should phone you in a short while begging you back. Don’t believe all this stuff about “holding back” and “getting hurt” – that is just nonsense all girls say.
Hey, are you sure that you do not ever hurt her? I think if you still love her, you try to ask her once again what the problem until she takes the decision. Try to invite her to have dinner and solve a problem for everything that can be resolved properly. Well, if she doesn’t want to go back, you must be willing to accept the decision even though it’s difficult.
You can never go back my friend so move forward and raise a glass to her once a year and remember teh good times you did have with her.
Honest with yourself, ask yourself, if she feels afraid, hurt again is justified. If not, and your intentions are honest, open dialogue, and try to talk with her, suggested I take over-stretched fears.She “consultants talk time and a time to send the son of a line, perhaps a map of his or flowers.
There is a possibility that you have hurt her intentionally or there is your attitude or behavior which hurt her or annoy her. Give her time before you talk with her. It is better for you to start with asking she broke up with you. If she does not want, do not push her. Forcing just will make her felt angrier with you.
Love is God in my opinion. You should trust each other. You should not hurt your feelings. Enjoy life with happiness. Optimist thinking and Positive attitude will be good for you.
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