How do I get back my ex gf even though shes dating someone else?
October 6, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Lynx_21 asked:
Shes dating someone else. We went out for 3 months and broek it up cuz she didnt have ” feelings” for me. I think its cuz I was acting too clingy…. I have learned to change this habit and now its a month and a half later and I dont know what to do. What should I do? GIRLS ESP help. Its a rebound relationship I believe and I want her back. What would get me to attract her again? Ignore her? help
Kenny
Shes dating someone else. We went out for 3 months and broek it up cuz she didnt have ” feelings” for me. I think its cuz I was acting too clingy…. I have learned to change this habit and now its a month and a half later and I dont know what to do. What should I do? GIRLS ESP help. Its a rebound relationship I believe and I want her back. What would get me to attract her again? Ignore her? help
Kenny
if shes going out with someone else i dont think you have a chance in hell
sorry man
Back off her and see if she comes back to you. If she doesn’t then move on. You can always find someone else.
go slow and hope for a breakup
Try to move on first. If things dont work out between her and that guy. Then try to get yourself back in there. Im in hte same situation, except we have only been broken up 2 weeks and she likes another guy. If it is meant to be then it is meant to be if not then its not. Also just dont give up.
I think it’s best to move on since she’s dating someone else. But if you still want to see if she’s interested, call her, text or, do something. But don’t try to annoy her. Give her some time and see what comes up. If not, then just leave her alone.
Playing games to get her attention eg. ignoring, trying to make her jealous etc. is not a good habit to get into I think. You are not together now and she has a new guy. It is not good form to try to break them up I think and if you were being too clingy, trying to break them up is not sending a good message. Whether she was being truthful about her feelings or not, she wanted to end it and I think you should respect that and move on. If you both want to and can be friends, that is good, but I think you should find a new girlfriend that has feelings for you and wants the same things out of a relationship as you. Good luck.
First things first: Call her ONCE and tell her that you understand why you guys broke up and you’ve spent the time that the two of you have been apart to work on that for yourself and FUTURE relationships. That’s key. That’s step one. Don’t call multiple times, if she doesn’t answer leave a message. Be calm and cool when you call, not crying all over the phone. Be confident. Rule #1: Do Not Text. Ever. It’s as simple as that. I’m getting tired of typing all this again because I have a blog with all this info on it. Check it out in the source box. There’s a **** load of info there.
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I think the best advice is to give her space and know there is a chance it may not work out again. Corny as it sounds, if it was meant to be it will work out. In addition, focusing too much on her might make you miss opportunities with other great people. Just try to move on and take it as a learning experience.
I just lost my gf of 5 years…was gonna aske her to marry me on christmas And planned on getting married before MARCH becuase we were movin away to start our family. i didnt cuz her mom couldnt make it because of the weather. So i waited. She dumped me new years day…. shes already in a relationship 10 days later. im trying not to kill myself. We were friends for 5 years before we dated and know shes like i hate u and everything about u but 2 weeks ago she was sayin how much she loved me and how much she wanted to have kids. She got new friends and they changed her in less than a month and our friendship and everything we had is gone.I bought her a house , 2 dogs and she didnt care about none of that. i broke my back to give her what she wanted and she could care less. We didnt get into a fight or anything she just left me and said it was her at first but it turned out to be another guy…. heartbroken. im just tryna move on cuz i miss hearing her voice, her face, just being around here and im going crazy so i know what everyone going thru
Be straight up with her and direct. Tell her how you feel and what you want.