GF and I getting back together?
January 28, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
monacolegend asked:
I love my girlfriend and she is waiting for me to clear my head and find out exactly what i want. well i am sure this time. only problem now is how do i tell my parents that I am getting back together with her. they are so old fashioned and religious and were part of the problem why i broke up with her. i was married and had an affair with the woman who is my GF. and my parents cant wont see that i am happy with her and we love each other. and she only wants to love and take care of me. i wish my parents would realize that and let me live my own life. and accept that sometimes people get divorced. sure the affair was wrong, but i think that GOD will forgive us. we are very happy and love each other and i think we can be together. i was living with her and then moved out on her with no notice. and she still is fighting to keep me. so that says something. i hope my parents will see that in time. she has never doubted our relationship. so i am making my own decision now. to stay with her.
Phyllis
I love my girlfriend and she is waiting for me to clear my head and find out exactly what i want. well i am sure this time. only problem now is how do i tell my parents that I am getting back together with her. they are so old fashioned and religious and were part of the problem why i broke up with her. i was married and had an affair with the woman who is my GF. and my parents cant wont see that i am happy with her and we love each other. and she only wants to love and take care of me. i wish my parents would realize that and let me live my own life. and accept that sometimes people get divorced. sure the affair was wrong, but i think that GOD will forgive us. we are very happy and love each other and i think we can be together. i was living with her and then moved out on her with no notice. and she still is fighting to keep me. so that says something. i hope my parents will see that in time. she has never doubted our relationship. so i am making my own decision now. to stay with her.
Phyllis
You are a cheater. Why don’t you try taking care of yourself before you ruin another woman’s life?
She is a homewrecker! Why would you even conseder her seriously? Come on!
You have your own life… of course your parents have their own opinions and they want to keep you safe. If this girl makes you happy then you should be with her. Your parents will hopefully one day understand.
it sounds like you have already answered your own question. I think you are making the right choice.however, do not fault your parents for being old fashioned, sometimes parents see more than there really is. In the end, GOD has already forgiven you, and your parents have as well, they just haven’t arrived to that point n time. Good luck, and I wish you the best. remember to treat her like a Princess every waking day of your lives together, for when that dies out, your relationship may as well.
It’s necessary for both parties to want the marriage to be a success. If one wants to sort things out but the other doesn’t then it’s not going to work out. If both genuinely want a solution then you should be able to work things out one way or another.
Changing my mindset was a bit more challenging. But, I really had to get my head straight or there would not have been any hope for getting back together again. It was only then that I could talk to him properly and really look at the underlying issues and concerns.