Do any guys ever feel guilty after breaking up with there Gf to be with another girl?
December 26, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
Bellarose M asked:
Do you feel bad when you break up with G just to be with another girl do you ever want your old GF back?
Tesha
Do you feel bad when you break up with G just to be with another girl do you ever want your old GF back?
Tesha
i dont plan to and cheating isnt my thing
but i want both
It is always better to break off a relationship before becoming involved with someone else. It is a low blow to find out the guy you care about has found someone he likes better and has her waiting in the wings.
Depends on the guy; most guys who do this try not to think about what they did to the girl, they may feel guilty initially, but they get over it quickly. Other guys don’t care at all, and won’t think twice. The good guys who may feel truly guilty are the ones who probably won’t do that in the first place. Stay away from the player-type guys who have had a lot of girlfriends, most likely you’ll just be another number in his history.
no ı don’t like.
It all depends on the guy. If a guy has never cheated on his girl before then there may be some level of guilt involved, but if a guy has cheated before, then you can fairly sure that there will not be a lot of guilt flying around.
Many guys will often want to hang onto their girlfriends even if they are cheating. This could be down to low self esteem, or they consider the girl to be their property.
If you only cheat the once and your girlfriend finds it in her heart to forgive you, the you’d better be grateful for the second chance.
I think it is Confucius who stated that we must pray that our partner who left us for another. He said that we must hope that they will be in each other’s arm forever, because you do not need someone whom you can not trust.
But sometimes it depends on the amount of love one has for his or her partner. Because love is unconditional and it knows no bounds.
For me, it is better that my partner cheats me rather than I cheat her because I do not want to have regrets later in life.
I love her, and I will focus and will devote myself in that perspective.
My guess is that even though you don’t want to be with her anymore, you still care enough about her as a person to feel bad for hurting her. “because u are self conscious” <– that is the first time I've *ever* heard that. Its normal but don't feel bad she probably was not good enough for you!!!!
This can’t be a serious question. It must come from a hope that the ethics or worth of the guy that dumped you are so low, that you are better off without him. Nice rationalization. Yes he feels guilty, yes he has a caring side and yes he dumped you. He is not necessarily callous or thoughtless just because you did not fit his plans or he could not see your real worth.
I do thank you for your supreme dedication in wanting to help people with this problem, and appreciate your efforts in giving information on this illness.