At what age were you wen you started getting serious and intimate with your bf/gf?
January 30, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
AussieAnLov asked:
jst wondering, i’m 14 going on 15 in two months and my my guy friend wants to date me and if i decide to date him again i know he wants to be intimate with me. i’m not ready for anything els but maybe kiss/makeout, exploring can come later when i know we are comitted and i’m like 16-18. how about you at what age did you sart doing things with your bf/gf?
Sari
jst wondering, i’m 14 going on 15 in two months and my my guy friend wants to date me and if i decide to date him again i know he wants to be intimate with me. i’m not ready for anything els but maybe kiss/makeout, exploring can come later when i know we are comitted and i’m like 16-18. how about you at what age did you sart doing things with your bf/gf?
Sari
im almost 16 and i dont think it is wrong to be doing things with your bf. if you trust him and he respects you its completly fine but in order to find out if he respects you, you need to make sure he is willing to wait to get physical until you are comfortable with it. its all about your comfort level and a good guy will recognize that, if he doesnt it is purely pysical to him and thats not a good relationship at all. you need a guys who can understand you on all levels [mentally and pysically] and they’re out there so if he isnt the right one dont sweat it, you ll find him sooner or later. good luck
Coming from a “Dad”…
I was 30!
Coming from a real point of view, I was lets say younger than 30
If you can see it will be an issue, than go with that current instinct! Stay away from dating the ones who give you those early warning feelings, cause that is what you are discribing! A early warning system in your mind, telling you that you already know what he will do/want.
Wait til you feel right. Wait as long as possible…Trust me the wait makes it worth it!
Stay Strong! Stay Happy! Stay Young!!!!!