After breaking up how long does it take to you to move on?
January 7, 2009 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
j.lady asked:
How long have you waited until breaking up with your g/f have you moved onto the next one? How guilty did you feel? if at all…..If you broke up with her and really broke her heart and regreted it would you tell her or just move on?
Izola
How long have you waited until breaking up with your g/f have you moved onto the next one? How guilty did you feel? if at all…..If you broke up with her and really broke her heart and regreted it would you tell her or just move on?
Izola
2 months at least
Umm less than 24 hours for my previous ones, but i am young and it was a rebound and i still wasn’t properly over them yet i just suffered in silence
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depends some people might never get over it.
almost never.
It’s instantaneous, I simply remove that girl from my “pool-o-hotties” and replace her with someone hotter.
You get over it,life changes all the time.
You will always miss that person, and have a special place in your heart for them, and wonder what if. There is no getting around that. Just take it a day at a time. The world is an ocean and there are lots of fish in it.
Please answer mine
About 30 seconds. Once I’ve made up my mind about someone, they’re equivalent to being dead. It’s done, they cease to exist and my life goes on…
some seem to matter more than most you never quite forget them and it gives you a good basis for comparison
depends on the person and how they can handle break ups etc. some go out that night and get layed.
My ex made sure i had no one to turn too (he made me ditch my friends, family etc so he was the only one i could rely on) so when he dumped me I got it bad. I was living alone had no family or friends, so practically i had to re build my life. I suffered alot from that break up, was in and out of hospital on ******* watch. then when i got up and said **** him i ended up finding love a year later and have a 2 year old son out of that relationship(which im still in)
it depends how long you’ve been together and how serious was the relationship…
some people get over it quick, some people don’t…
keep yourself busy, to avoid thinking and avoid being hurt… it’s easy to say, but hard to go through a break up…
Be strong and don’t worry you will get better
well not all are the same
i was with my ex 9 months & now 2 months i broke up with him but on friday im flighting to greece ot see him even if i know that we will not be back together:)
so.?
Well if you broke up with your gf then it will be immediate.
You are pretty stupid to break up without thinking about it.
If she has low self esteem, then there will be a chance to get her back.
Once you break up things will never be the same, so move on.
It took me just over a year to get over my ex-fiance. We dated for 4 years. The first couple of months I was pretty much suicidal. My whole world crumbled down. After that it gradually got better and better, I managed to date other men but it just wasn’t the same, and whenever I saw him with other women it still tore me apart. Only now, just over a year later, am I able to feel happy for him & his new girlfriend, rather than jealousy/heartbreak/spite/you name it.
So, depending on how much you love the person/the circumstances/how long you were together, it’s usually a lengthy process.
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There is no getting around that. Just take it a day at a time. The world is an ocean and there are lots of fish in it.
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months. We’ve had problems with his ex girlfriend(which was his first love) for awhile. Anyway, last week he broke up with me because I supposedly “changed”. Which now I know was not why. He and his ex had been talking. And now they are dating. All I want is for him to be happy. But I also want to be with him. How do I win him back? I love him with all my heart.
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Sorry..and good luck.
If you want him to be happy, then you have to let him know. I believe everything happens for a reason and if they were destined to meet again, then maybe they need to be together. Just as long as you stay true to who you are, the right man who appreciates YOU will be there. If you love him, let him go. It’s hard, but he obviously doesn’t love you back