2 days after getting back with my ex gf, she texts me and tells me she met another guy?
March 19, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationship Q & A
yeventryuwilllose asked:
we broke up and were not talking for a while, once we started talking it was clear we boht missed each other and loved each other…. so she lives in cali and i am in ohio…. we tell each other we love each other and talk about her coming home, cause she is moving back march 1st…anyhow she goes on a trip to lake tahoe with another couple a day after we get back together, and texts me a day later telling me she met someone… i ask her if we can talk and she texts me back, nah, im ok, thanks……. ***….. why would someone do this…. why would she be talking about moving in with me and how much she loves me and how incredible i am and that she will never take me for granted again….. how could she change so quickly??
Joye
we broke up and were not talking for a while, once we started talking it was clear we boht missed each other and loved each other…. so she lives in cali and i am in ohio…. we tell each other we love each other and talk about her coming home, cause she is moving back march 1st…anyhow she goes on a trip to lake tahoe with another couple a day after we get back together, and texts me a day later telling me she met someone… i ask her if we can talk and she texts me back, nah, im ok, thanks……. ***….. why would someone do this…. why would she be talking about moving in with me and how much she loves me and how incredible i am and that she will never take me for granted again….. how could she change so quickly??
Joye
She doesn’t know what she wants out of love. I live in Cali….gimme her address I’ll kill her. No I’m kidding. it seems like you’re her “Fallback Guy”. Or she was just looking to fool around in Tahoe..
She is cold,move on and find someone that is honest to start off with.
She’s a *****. Better that it happened sooner than later. Now you know.
maybe she just likes the attention and thinks youll be there when shes done with this new guy
Perhaps its just fear of commitment, or worse fear of being alone, and now that she found someone else she doesn’t need you now! Either way I’d just let her go! Long distance relationships are a pain! Enjoy yourself, maybe you two can still be friends later!
Best Wishes!
I wouldn’t say change, she most likely is a liar. She doesn’t sound serious about you if she so easily messed around a day later and you have no idea what she’s been up to while you’ve been apart.
I’d move on, if you carry on with her it’ll most likely end in tears.
well i guess during the time that you weren’t ‘talking for a while’ she was able to analyze her feelings for you. now, don’t consider this guy as a threat yet. wait until she gets back from tahoe to talk about it. she probably knows what she did was wrong, considering the text message, and is doing something up there to fix her mistake.
if the two of you were meant to be…. then everything will fall into place.