What to Tell Your GF to Get Back With U

February 28, 2009 by  
Filed under Get Your Girlfriend Back

After your girlfriend has broken up with you, you are probably wanting to know what to tell your gf to get back with u.  The best answer to this, is – nothing.  There is probably nothing you can tell her at this time to get her back.

She broke up with you for a reason, and it was probably some action you took that hurt her.  It could have been saying hurtful things to her, it could have been ignoring her, or even cheating on her.  So, anything you say is probably not going to win her back.

What I mean by there is nothing your can tell your gf to get back with u, is that sweet talking her, or sending her a love letter or trying to use love poems to win her back is not going to work.

Instead, you need to understand why she broke up with you, work on making whatever changes you need to make, and then show her, by your actions, that you have changed.

The first action to take is to admit to her your fault in the breakup, what you did wrong and what you should have done differently.  In most cases even a heart felt apology is not going to want her to get back with you, but it’s a good first step.

The next action to take is help her to realize that she wants you back.  I know that sounds like common sense, but many people blow it at this stage.  Even if you’re still hurt, and angry, you have to rise above that.  When you see her you need to be kind, patient and understanding of her needs right now.

Your girlfriend was first attracted to you because of some part of your personality.  Let her experience that part of your personality again.  Let her see the person that she liked being with.

Another important action to take is to really listen to her when she talks to you.  Listen carefully and don’t interrupt.  Let her express herself without you jumping in and telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought to do.

Once you’ve taken these actions, you need to pay attention to any signs she may be giving you.  You may notice her being nicer to you when she sees you.  She might start seeking you out and calling you. These are good signs, but don’t blow it by immediately suggesting you get back together.

Give it time and continue to be the great guy they she wants to be around.  Eventually she will remember why she wanted to be with you in the first place, or she will back off and move on.  In either case, you can know that you did all you could do to win her back.

So, it’s not really about what to tell your gf to get back with u, it’s about your taking action to show her why she should get back with you.

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299 Responses to “What to Tell Your GF to Get Back With U”
  1. I looked my best mate straight in the eye & said, “Just relax man. I do know exactly the way you can get her back.”

  2. rift gold says:

    I’ve already lost my confidence and I don’t think I can win her back. She already got a new boyfriend.

  3. These are good ideas, but really they sound like invites to write an essay! Just a bit too rough in my opinion. Those are things that take a lot of thought. I have a good friend who swears by “if you could either have the power of flight or invisibility, which would you choose?” It gets them talking without being overly complicated and stressful on the spot. Seems to work, since this guy has potential mates just hanging all over him!

  4. Whatever you do whether you send her a chocolates, flowers, gift baskets if she really don’t love you then you’ll just be sorry.

    Only time can tell if you for one another. Now if you think your relationship won’t work then better stop and move on. There are still more for life.
    The right girl will come at the right time.

    always remember “True love Waits”

  5. Make sure that it turns into a blame game – on each side. If it is slinging blame back and forth, no one will be forgiven, and you’re not going to get back together. Don’t let him abuse you, but do not raise every little thing, it has never done wrong, either.

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  29. I think you must move on in life. Do not worry about your past. Care for your present time and care for the future. Forget all memories of the past.

  30. The real problem is that lots of people would be better off without their ex’es – it depends on the relationship, but most people need to sit down and have a good long look in the mirror!

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