Signs Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back

May 21, 2009 by  
Filed under Get Your Girlfriend Back

If your ex girlfriend is showing you a little bit of interest, or seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, then it’s okay to be a little hopeful.  But, you need to avoid jumping the gun.  You may be asking “what are the signs my ex girlfriend wants you back“?

These are definitely very common signs that your ex girlfriend is interested in getting you back. But even if you want to get back with your ex gf, you should not simply jump into things.

The best way to play things is to play hard to get (in moderation), which is probably what your ex will best respond to anyway.

If you simply jump into things full force, then you may find her pushing you back again. In fact, if your ex girlfriend is giving indications that she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.

Usually when you break up with your ex girlfriend, or she breaks up with you, there is a natural level of missing one another, or longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer.

Your ex girlfriend is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories you shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets.

If you are wondering “am I seeing sings my ex girlfriend wants me back” the odds are that your ex girlfriend may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.

Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back.

So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they  may see this as away to get revenge for some perceived wrong.

This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering if these are signs your ex girlfriend wants you back. But the truth is, it’s better to get a feel for the situation before you act.

In reality, if your ex girlfriend does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex gf is not really serious about getting back with you.

For more in depth information on signs an ex girlfriend wants you back, I recommend the Win Your Love Back Guide.

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469 Responses to “Signs Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back”
  1. Getting an ex back is not always easy and not always guaranteed, but carefully following these suggestions will double your chances of success.

  2. It is so useful and informative, but i dont want to worry about it.

  3. filthybunny says:

    Thanks for this article. I still don’t think my ex girlfriend wants to get back with me :(

  4. I easily get interested with issues relating love and its many aspects. It’s not that I am a hopeless romantic person but I just really wanted to be familiar with factors that affects the emotions that two persons mutually feels. I know hurt feelings is something that is so hard to deal in these world so better be careful in committing to a relationship. Glad that you have posted this blog, another bunch of information is added on my love file.

  5. As the song says, “Love moves in a mysterious ways…” Well, expect the unexpected and there is a room for a second chance.
    Nevertheless, after those storms there are realizations. Keep moving forward!

  6. I’m sorry, but for me there is no point in getting back together with an ex. If they had broken up is because there was a reason. Unless that is fixed, everything will be a mess again for sure.

  7. This article is true. Try not to act overly eager, keep the suspense longer and this will interest her more.

  8. Paul from Online Dating Services .org says:

    There are few things worse than a relationship that is on, then off, then on again and keeps going like this. I think it’s therefore vital to give a lot of thought to whether you really do want to get back together for good, and whether the relationship really has a long term future.

    Think about exactly why you split up or drifted apart in the first place. Was it maybe a one-off mistake or is it possibly a character flaw of one of you which may cause a break up again in the future. If it’s the second, you may be better off moving on into the future without getting back together, even if it means embracing the single life for a while. It can be better to be alone and looking for the right person than to be together with the wrong person.

  9. There are many ways to get your girlfriend back but one of the best is to turn things around and make your girlfriend feel as if she was the one that was dumped. How so? Well, more often than not a break up will make us say and do things that we ordinarily wouldn’t do. This is when people let their emotions fly and where desperation kicks in.

  10. this is a good sign for some one who are waiting but who are committed to any other is not good.

  11. Once you cheated that no means you always cheated out,nice information out here regarding the signs of the Ex-wants you back in their life.I really try out these one.

  12. First things first, you must harden up for the time being and avoid any cry, pleading and begging for your girlfriend to take you back. Sometimes these methods can work but chances that they may push your girlfriend away forever. Get your emotions in control, these methods will not fix your relationship.

  13. camille from Anti Aging products says:

    Yeah, I agree to most of you. If they keep on asking you how are you or how you’ve been. It’s a sign that you’re ex’s wants you back. Maintaining his/her communication to you is also a sign that he/she wants you back.

  14. hi,
    this artical is so good & useful for other person but I still don’t think my ex girlfriend wants to get back with me.thanks for sharing information.

  15. Really interesting article,but i think if i break up with someone i will never to be the ex anymore.

  16. I think it is very easy to see them. I have seen many scenes like this in the TV. It is very easy to know it.

  17. In fact, if your ex girlfriend is giving indications that she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place…

  18. These are so interesting sign. Will they work?

  19. Home Alarms says:

    Remember, whether you see any signs your ex wants you back will depend largely on you – your actions and behavior. If you do the right things (and avoid the wrong things).

  20. I have seen many scenes like this in the TV. It is very easy to know it.

  21. Very interesting topic. These signs might be true but in my opinion maybe there are some girls who don’t wanna waste the precious time so instead wants to be a good friend…well, maybe it depends upon the situation. Hope to read more from you…thanks.

  22. I don’t think we can get over our first loves. I still remember mine and wish we were in touch. We both have moved on with mutual consent but I do not wish to forget the wonderful moments I have spend with him which brings a smile on my face always.

  23. Mia from wedding photography says:

    Just make sure that your ex wants you for good.

  24. Jenny from Las vegas wedding receptions says:

    I don’t jump to conclusions when someone shows interest on me. It’s really disappointing if you get too positive on something but in fact, there’s nothing special going on between the two of you. It’s best to stay neutral about your feelings unless you are able to confirm that that person really likes or has an interest in you.

  25. Coiled Cable says:

    If there is still communication after the break up, then there’s still hope that you want to get back with each other. So you may add this sign if she/he wants you to get back. I agree avoid jumping the gun because your ex might want to revenge. Nice post thanks for sharing.

  26. Getting back with an ex-girlfriend is the least thing that I will do. When I am in love, I give it my all. Probably we come up to a decision of separating ways because of a very reasonable cause or it’s the last option we can make that in a way will be beneficial to both of us. So if ever time come that an ex is showing signs that she wanted me back, I’ll just ignore it. But who knows, we might be really were meant for each other and if that’s the case I just live it to fate to decide if we can still be together again.

  27. I’ve done this situation before. We had been separated for a couple of months but still I love her that anytime I remember such moments that we’ve been together, I used to cry and I realized that I really love her. So what’s the reason that I’ve got her back ? Actually what brought us to a separation is a simple mis understanding and it was not a reason at all that our relationship will turn to nothing as I worked a lot for our relationship to become stronger. One day I texted her, and she replied me as soon as possible, so I grab that opportunity to talk her personally, and we’ve come to a point that both of us accept our own mistakes. I realized that understanding is the best solution to every problems. Thanks for for this post pal.

  28. Sometimes these methods can work but chances that they may push your girlfriend away forever. Get your emotions in control, these methods will not fix your relationship.

  29. I think, There is no other easy task like getting your Ex Girlfriend back.

  30. This articles helps me more.Thanks for your sharing,I will pay more attentions to your blog.Looking forward to your better and better articles.See you next time.

  31. It’s not easy to get their own girl friend back without any clashes or any kind of differences in between them.If the one who got their love back is lucky.

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  33. Ask him to hang out, and leave at the same time, it is proposed to make some fun and emotionally bonding two things you used to do. This is to remind him of what you two were, and makes it very nostalgic.

  34. It is important to have distinction on whether our gf really wants get back with us or she only shows interest for grabbing only our attention or wants revenge. if she is no more interested on you,even you deeply love her and want to win her trust once more, it would be rather tough task for you.Nevertheless,you mustn’t jumping on gun,but should have patience with accurate hard working.

  35. Some sage advice here.. but like I always say, it’s best to have an honest and open conversation if you have a choice, and that way you’ll know where you stand for sure..

  36. I can see that you are putting a lot of time and effort into your blog and detailed articles! I am deeply in love with every single piece of information you post here. Will be back often to read more updates!

  37. if your ex girlfriend is giving indications that she wants you back, then the odds are, it was you playing hard to get that led to the renewed interest in the first place.

  38. This is a very interesting blog. We’ll I think everybody deserves a second chance right? we’ll if it doesn’t worked before maybe this time could be it. They say, “Love is sweeter the second time around” and maybe this time both parties are conscious of the wrong deeds that they’ve done to each other and are now aware not to do it again. So beautiful things could work this time.

  39. “Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back”,yup,couldnt agree more

  40. Actually what brought us to a separation is a simple mis understanding and it was not a reason at all that our relationship will turn to nothing as I worked a lot for our relationship to become stronger.

  41. maprojoy says:

    great read!! I definitely enjoying every little bit of it

  42. CCNA Jobs says:

    Thanks for this article.Now its get easy to get his or her ex back.

  43. Thanks for this article.Now its get easy to get his or her ex back.

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  45. Al from stretch mark removal says:

    I am heartbroken for quite a while now. You stated here the signs of getting her back. But in my case, the girl I still love is not meant for me. The girl that took my sleep, my concentration, my inspiration, my will to survive, my heart, my self confidence is marrying someone else. We have been together for four years, then we broke up due to my persistent work that took me far away from her for a year. Then when I go back she is engaged to a particular friend of mine. I was devastated, I bought her a ring and placed it in a box, I was planning of proposing but when she declared that she wants out, I cried. I cried in front of her and kneeled and begged her to give me a chance but she walked out on me. I threw the damn ring I was supposed to give her. And walked away. Feeling the weight of the world upon my shoulder.
    It’s been 6 years now since that night she left me and I still can;t forget her. I just can’t let her go off my heart. She wasn’t married yet. I knew this from a friend. But she has a new guy and they plan to get married. I contacted her but she didn’t respond.
    How do I get over? Can you make some suggestions? I would appreciate it if some one would respond.
    Heartbroken Guy,
    Al’z

  46. This will definitely going to help all those who are confused to identify things going in their girlfriend’s mind. Read it and know whats in her mind.

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