Get Your Ex Back Deal With Your Anger First
February 5, 2010 by admin
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Get Your Ex Back Deal – With Your Anger First
Getting your ex back is a piece of cake when you really think about it. After all, you are talking about a person that was madly in love with you at one point in your life. Not too long ago you might have thought it was absurd to think that you would ever have to make them fall in love with you again. They probably told you every day that they loved you. Chances are you never left the house without saying goodbye and receiving a kiss. And every night you might have kissed before going to sleep.
But now your life has been turned upside down and where there was once love there is a multitude of emotions. A breakup can literally be an emotional roller coaster. One minute your up and optimistic and the next your down in the dumps.
In order to get to the point where you can even think about getting your ex back it might be necessary to work through some of these emotions so you can be better prepared when the time does come to get back together. After all, you won’t want to unload on your ex with all of these emotions when you are just about to get back together, right?
Use these effective coping techniques to help work through your emotions as you begin your campaign to get your ex back
Writing Letters – If it were twenty years ago I would suggest that you write a letter to your ex and let out all the anger and rage that you have over your breakup on a piece of paper. Once you had poured your heart out about how hurt and angry you were you could either tear the paper to shreds, set it ablaze or save it for a rainy day. If you saved it you could look back and use it to gauge how your feelings and circumstances had changed.
Although this technique still could work today it might be equally effective and perhaps a little easier if you typed out an email to them. Really pour your heart out and let loose with every little thing that has been on your mind. Write about how lonely you are, how poorly you feel you have been treated throughout the breakup or how much you love your partner and all that you did to try to rebuild your relationship. Create a free email account and send your letters to that email address. Just be careful that you don’t send these emails to your ex by mistake and delete them out of your sent items before you get back together.
Yell, Scream, Cry – Yes, yelling, screaming and crying in the solitude of your home can be a very effective way to release these emotions. You will be being true to yourself and what you feel when you outwardly express these emotions in a safe way. Nobody gets hurt so there is no reason to feel guilty. Chances are that after a good screaming match with a picture of your ex you might feel a strange sort of relief… as if you have been cleansed of these emotions that you have been holding inside. Of course, if you live in an apartment or have roommates it might be necessary to do this when nobody is around.
Crying, in itself, has its own healing effect. Crying until you are all “cried out” will leave you feeling renewed and as if a great burden has been lifted from your shoulders. Most women know this (no offense) and many men have at one point or another felt the satisfaction and relief that comes after having a really good cry.
Take it Out Physically – When you feel angry or upset or frustrated with the situation take it out physically on a punching bag or do some other sort of physical exercise. Run, jog or walk as you run everything over in your head. Go ahead! Get angry and work it out physically. Install a chin up bar in the house and any time you feel angry or upset do chin ups, pushup or sit-ups until you are exhausted.
The bonus in this is that before long you’re appearance is going to improve by working out your frustration and anger. This definitely will be a very powerful contributing factor that will help you to get your ex back. When they see you for the first time after some time has passed they will notice the change and see that you’re looking even better than they remembered. How sweet is that?
Use these three helpful coping techniques to work through the anger and frustration that accompanies a breakup and you will be well on your way to creating the foundation necessary to win your ex back.
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Hi,
That’s really a wonderful suggestions. But what if your ex has already a new partner? That would be difficult isn’t it?
I had a boyfriend for 3 years and we are madly in love with each other but left me with an older woman. Then I go to the boxing gym and punch my way from anger.
And now got fit and sexy. Guys in the gym are wanting me so bad and even my ex called and said ‘can we meet again’ but hell no!
Angela Wilson
Getting the ex back is really really difficult ,but after reading your ideas it became easy.
Getting your ex back is a piece of cake when you really think about it. After all, you are talking about a person that was madly in love with you at one point in your life. Not too long ago you might have thought it was absurd to think that you would ever have to make them fall in love with you again. They probably told you every day that they loved you. Chances are you never left the house without saying goodbye and receiving a kiss. And every night you might have kissed before going to sleep.
The anger is the worst enemy of every relation,so first we have to control our anger to save any relation.
You have made a perfect summary of how to work with your emotions after a breakup.
Doing exercise is something I have done after break ups and it works!
Anger sometimes plays a very bad role in relationships.We must always keep our anger under control because in anger we are not aware of what we speak and how we behave.But if at all you have lost your beloved because of your anger you can still fight and get them back.
Cool post. I think I’ll get the Magic of Making Up!!!!
Anger is the root for almost all personal problems. Nice tips to make-up once again with your Ex.
This all are really very useful suggestions, it’s true that getting your ex back is great news. Superb tips are given here. I am sure this will be very affective, surely gonna suggest it to my friends also.
When it comes to my ex’s, it’s always going to end how it previously ended. As humans our brain works like a pendulum..Back n forth and ends at exactly the same position.Writing letters might brings us back but won’t make us iron out the past if we don’t want to..(Pride)
Anger is something where relationships always damages and even sometimes there are very serious misunderstandings because of the anger. I would suggest when one is angry the other partners should stay calm and handle the situation calmly so the matter does not take another mode.
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Getting your ex back can be very difficult simply because once something is over, its over. Acceptance of the new relationship can lead to long term friendships simply because you have already spent so much of your lives together. Providing, of course, that you have broken up and treated each other respectfully.
Still, if you feel that there is a chance to make amends to your relationship, the only way to go is with total honesty. Just make sure of the real reasons why you want to commit again to each other.
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Awesome articles,and tips are too good,i definitely write a letter to mine Ex,and definitely write all mine anger and rage in the letter.
The best thing to do is talk to each other sincerely.
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Getting angry never achieves anything and certainly won’t win you your loved one back.
While developing feelings towards someone is easy, making relationships work and last isn’t always so. Many beautiful relationships have had to end because the two lovers could not cope with having to balance between the periodic obstacles of life and still carry on a healthy and happy romantic relationship. calling the quits on a relationship can be a culmination of a range of factors, but no matter how severe the pain or how serious the motivation behind breaking up, at some point or the other, every man looks back and realizes he has gotten it all wrong and wishes to redress the shift in balance.
emm.. letters should play the role, it is better than an email. ya
Just want to say this actually happens a lot. because after seeing around you often realize you ex was the best one. So don’t be ashamed and give her/him a call. I’m really happy i did.
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That’s right. If you really wanted to get your ex back, better control yourself and your anger too.. You can never deal with that problem once you didn’t solve your own personal problems. That’s just a matter of controlling your temper.
More Power,
Sheena
Many beautiful relationships have had to end because the two lovers could not cope with having to balance between the periodic obstacles of life and still carry on a healthy and happy romantic relationship.
Yes, it is really important that you deal with your anger because most of the time it is the main reason for having problems. Scream your problem or punch is really good way to let it out.
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The blog is so useful.You will be being true to yourself and what you feel when you outwardly express these emotions in a safe way.
Don’t worry,it’s just a matter of time. eventually he will realize you are the one!!!
Why do you need to suffer to get your ex back?, if you really love him/her you’ll let him/her to go away with his/her love and if he/she really loves you he/she will never let you to escape.
This is a great post for the lovers and as well for each individual.
I hope we learn to compromise and be more attentive to one another in a relationship.
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There’s nothing to deal with your ex. Move on to what happen, He/She will be back soon, if He/She really loves you.
Nice article, your right, how can a person expect to get back with his ex if he or she doesn’t know how to control this emotions, angers, fears. Controlling it is the first step to show your ex that you are a person capable of changing for the better, time and patience my friend thats all.