Get Your Ex Back Deal With Your Anger First
February 5, 2010 by admin
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Get Your Ex Back Deal – With Your Anger First
Getting your ex back is a piece of cake when you really think about it. After all, you are talking about a person that was madly in love with you at one point in your life. Not too long ago you might have thought it was absurd to think that you would ever have to make them fall in love with you again. They probably told you every day that they loved you. Chances are you never left the house without saying goodbye and receiving a kiss. And every night you might have kissed before going to sleep.
But now your life has been turned upside down and where there was once love there is a multitude of emotions. A breakup can literally be an emotional roller coaster. One minute your up and optimistic and the next your down in the dumps.
In order to get to the point where you can even think about getting your ex back it might be necessary to work through some of these emotions so you can be better prepared when the time does come to get back together. After all, you won’t want to unload on your ex with all of these emotions when you are just about to get back together, right?
Use these effective coping techniques to help work through your emotions as you begin your campaign to get your ex back
Writing Letters – If it were twenty years ago I would suggest that you write a letter to your ex and let out all the anger and rage that you have over your breakup on a piece of paper. Once you had poured your heart out about how hurt and angry you were you could either tear the paper to shreds, set it ablaze or save it for a rainy day. If you saved it you could look back and use it to gauge how your feelings and circumstances had changed.
Although this technique still could work today it might be equally effective and perhaps a little easier if you typed out an email to them. Really pour your heart out and let loose with every little thing that has been on your mind. Write about how lonely you are, how poorly you feel you have been treated throughout the breakup or how much you love your partner and all that you did to try to rebuild your relationship. Create a free email account and send your letters to that email address. Just be careful that you don’t send these emails to your ex by mistake and delete them out of your sent items before you get back together.
Yell, Scream, Cry – Yes, yelling, screaming and crying in the solitude of your home can be a very effective way to release these emotions. You will be being true to yourself and what you feel when you outwardly express these emotions in a safe way. Nobody gets hurt so there is no reason to feel guilty. Chances are that after a good screaming match with a picture of your ex you might feel a strange sort of relief… as if you have been cleansed of these emotions that you have been holding inside. Of course, if you live in an apartment or have roommates it might be necessary to do this when nobody is around.
Crying, in itself, has its own healing effect. Crying until you are all “cried out” will leave you feeling renewed and as if a great burden has been lifted from your shoulders. Most women know this (no offense) and many men have at one point or another felt the satisfaction and relief that comes after having a really good cry.
Take it Out Physically – When you feel angry or upset or frustrated with the situation take it out physically on a punching bag or do some other sort of physical exercise. Run, jog or walk as you run everything over in your head. Go ahead! Get angry and work it out physically. Install a chin up bar in the house and any time you feel angry or upset do chin ups, pushup or sit-ups until you are exhausted.
The bonus in this is that before long you’re appearance is going to improve by working out your frustration and anger. This definitely will be a very powerful contributing factor that will help you to get your ex back. When they see you for the first time after some time has passed they will notice the change and see that you’re looking even better than they remembered. How sweet is that?
Use these three helpful coping techniques to work through the anger and frustration that accompanies a breakup and you will be well on your way to creating the foundation necessary to win your ex back.
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Very well written,thank you share.
baidu
Physical exercise is a good way to calm down and get rid of your anger. You could also think about getting away for a few days for some space and time to do new things and keep your mind off your ex.
we can say its all depends upon on the relation and the trust the both have for each other cause when people does something wrong sometimes we get anger so both have to understand and make the steps together.
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Very well written. Thanks for sharing it.
Why do people want to get back their ex if they know their love has no love for them?
I agree with your thought. Thank you for your sharing.
Great post! It’s very useful for me.
I hope I read this 4 years ago when my ex and I broke up. I love him and I thought that he was the one for me. I hope I will be happy this time.
Thanks for your good sharing! So a good post!
When people does something wrong sometimes we get anger so both have to understand and make the steps together.
I think it’s efficient!
Very well written article and tips you have shared too good related to get back your’s Ex.But the scream idea i don’t like at all while you love some you can’t scream on them rest is ok.
Very informative post. I totally agree that you must move past the anger and resentment before any forward progress can be made.
anger sometimes result to stupidity of actions…
Yup, that’s right. Deal with your anger first, before you say or do something really stupid, or that makes you stupid…
that’s why cooling period is needed. its important to have some space after the break up coz if not the emotions that we have might just worsen the situation and lessen our chances in getting our ex back.
those tips are good and i am actually doing the writing thing in order to get rid of the bad feeling. i just write what i feel and then just tear the paper and throw. lol!
cry if needed, it will not make you less a man if you cry. crying is good to release emotions. you will be surprise to feel a lot better after crying.
interesting, it might work. thank you for posting. I will think about this
Chances are you never left the house without saying goodbye and receiving a kiss.
Yes..you are to the point.i can not agree more.
Dealing with anger is the most important part of any relationship. Learning to deal with it will keep you together.
Writing letters was the best way for me. Through writings, I can pour out all my emotions, and it was also a good way because there will be no people can hear me nor can tell what I feel inside.
Yes, I agree that anger issues can ruin a relationship. If makes the significant other love you less or more distant from you. I had that happen to me before where eventually I just emotionally shut the person out of my life. From there on the relationship goes dead.
Leslie
Good post.
No matter how close you are, both of you should allow space for each other.
Run, I used to run a lot when my ex dumped me and it helped…..
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Very insightful article, I really enjoyed reading it. I must say that you have to forgive and forget before any forward progress can be made.
nice post. Thanks for sharing it with us. Keep on posting great post.
This is really true. Relationships will never be fixed if we’re not able to let it pour it. Screaming is the my best remedy. It really works, I stay calm after screaming it out. It doesn’t necessarily to scream in front of a guy or to someone else. Thanks for this wonderful insight. This is an eye opener.
Anger is not the solution. Feel the love and everything will be ok.