Get Back at an Ex
September 27, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Ex Back
I’m sometimes asked by those who have had their hearts broken by a breakup, how can I get back at my ex?
My first question is – “Do you want to try to win back you ex”? If you want to win back your ex, then you need to let go of that anger that wants to “get back at an ex”! You then need to take a cooling off period from your ex and have no contact with them for a period of time.
After that cooling off period, you need to decide if you really do want to try to win them back. If you do, there may still be a chance it can happen, but you need to follow the plan that has helped thousands win an ex back.
If you decide you don’t want to try to win them back, and just want to move on – that’s a good sign that you have discovered some things about you, or about your ex, and you don’t see things working out between you.
If you still want to get back at an ex, I have a great tip for you. Get some help with moving on with your life.
Getting back at your ex will not help you. You may think it will help you get over the anger and move on, but it won’t help. You may feel better for a few minutes, but chances are later on you will feel worse than ever.
Trying to get back at someone, is really another way of stating that you want to hurt someone in some way. This is immature, destructive, and can even be dangerous. Trying to get back at your ex will help you in absolutely no way.
Instead, I suggest you get help with getting over your ex.
Please don’t ever try to get back at an ex, it will not help you and could have terribly negative consequences. Instead, take a step back, realize you are going through a hurtful time just like everyone else in this world has gone through. Hurting after a breakup is a part of life.
If you need help learning how to get over your ex, get the help you need, and move on.
I have found that getting back with an ex doesn’t usually work too well if you aren’t sure about it.
Well, just couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Moreover first 10 days its difficult to leave without her but after that it’s easy to leave. So I don’t want my ex back. Thanks for your lovely suggestion.
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Thanks for your sharing! I find that the atmosphere is not what i want. It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple.
Well, just couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend and i dont care anymore…
You may think it will help you get over the anger and move on, but it won’t help. You may feel better for a few minutes, but chances are later on you will feel worse than ever.
My question to you is, did your ex still loves you?. If she/he does then try to capture his/her heart again.
I find that the atmosphere is not what i want. It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple.
I have never had try to win mine Ex hearth again.But from the couple of days i really miss her a lot but haven’t have any idea how to get him back but after seen you tips how to win back can’t wait to try it.
that is if you don’t love him/her anymore and if you feel like getting back with them is already useless.
but what if you still want them? what if you feel like you can’t live without them? lol!
well, getting over them will be really good if you have accepted to yourself already that you are ready to live and go on with your life without them.
you just need to weigh your feelings towards the situation.
That is so true! But I have to ask ….What If the one you love and want n\back is dating your best friemd???
Well, According to me, Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems.
My best friend is having a break off with her girlfriend before 6 months but one weak before they are again together…
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Moving on is a very important part of being hurt. That’s just the way it is. But getting your ex back is not that bad but you really have to move on first and prepare yourself. Time is our great healer.
That’s just the way it is. But getting your ex back is not that bad but you really have to move on first and prepare yourself. Time is our great healer.
I still feel very unsure about the topic of getting back with your ex. In my case, whenever I break up with anyone I moved on forward and never look back. Like one of the comments said when you get back together it’s the trust issues that ruin it. Unless both parties go back in with their heart on their shoulder again. That’s what I believe though.
Leslie
It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple
I feel very sad whenever I hear heart broken story from my any friend.I like the way you have described here what would happen after getting back an ex or not.Yes I do agree with your point that negativity can come after.
I agree. Being in unhappy and abusive relationship don’t deserve to be win back again. If you have been separated, of course it happened because of something really serious reason. If that reason was not truly acceptable, there’s no use restoring that relationship. Instead, just seek for ways to get over it. A relationship worth fighting for doesn’t even end in a break-up. Only immature and unworthy relationship does.
Don’t talk to him about the problems you had. Just try to have as much fun as you can, with him and the other folks. Don’t give him all your attention either – Divide it evenly between him and the other people. Or maybe talk slightly more with the others even. (You said he is shy, so that probably shouldn’t be a problem)
It proved to be Very helpful to me and I am sure to all the commenters here! It is always good when you can not only be informed, but also entertained!
You have well written about anger as sometimes people just get back an ex to feel better but it does not work in all cases.It is important to be happy in a relation from both sides.
Hi all is important and also very nice all is share again by again thanks for it.
well,getting over them will be really good if you have accepted to yourself already that you are ready to live and go on with your life without them.
I would say try not to build up your hopes of getting your ex back you could end up being disappointed all over again.
i YOU HAVE A LUCK, GO AND FIGHT YOUR EX BACK:)
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In my experienced I learned to let go the lapses of my beloved and I finally apply the verse that says love cover all sins. And now I am so blessed and happy to the one I really love despite of many circumstances.
Sometimes people do break up in emotions or anger then they feel guilty and want their ex back.In this case they can follow all these suggestions.This is such a good and inspiring post.
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I would have to agree that getting back with your ex is not generally a good idea. I think that it’s best to move on forward. Unless it was a mistake that you both made to break up there might a be resolution.
Leslie
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It will be useful to read anything more concerning this topic.
Thank for giving that information.
With best regards!
I would imagine the best place to be would be to feel nothing at all
Dont ever do anything to get back at them as thats just childish silly behaviour. Imagine having to explain yourself to a new girlfriend/boyfriend you really really love how embarassed you would feel
Taking revenge on an ex-loved one is pathetic. if you feel the need to do this then you really are not over them at all
I love how you described here this would happen after the return or ex not.Yes I agree with you that negativity can come later.
Like one of the comments said when you get back together it’s the trust issues that ruin it. Unless both parties go back in with their heart on their shoulder again. These all are great to know about it.
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well, getting over them will be really good if you have accepted to yourself already that you are ready to live and go on with your life without them.
you just need to weigh your feelings towards the situation.
In my experienced I learned to let go the lapses of my beloved and I finally apply the verse that says love cover all sins. And now I am so blessed and happy to the one I really love despite of many circumstances.
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Sincerity and Love are the best key to win your ex back.
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Getting back at your ex will not help you. That is for sure!
Completely agree that ‘getting back at an ex’ is a waste of time. You’d be much better focusing your energy on getting them back in your life, or moving on completely.