Get Back at an Ex
September 27, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Ex Back
I’m sometimes asked by those who have had their hearts broken by a breakup, how can I get back at my ex?
My first question is – “Do you want to try to win back you ex”? If you want to win back your ex, then you need to let go of that anger that wants to “get back at an ex”! You then need to take a cooling off period from your ex and have no contact with them for a period of time.
After that cooling off period, you need to decide if you really do want to try to win them back. If you do, there may still be a chance it can happen, but you need to follow the plan that has helped thousands win an ex back.
If you decide you don’t want to try to win them back, and just want to move on – that’s a good sign that you have discovered some things about you, or about your ex, and you don’t see things working out between you.
If you still want to get back at an ex, I have a great tip for you. Get some help with moving on with your life.
Getting back at your ex will not help you. You may think it will help you get over the anger and move on, but it won’t help. You may feel better for a few minutes, but chances are later on you will feel worse than ever.
Trying to get back at someone, is really another way of stating that you want to hurt someone in some way. This is immature, destructive, and can even be dangerous. Trying to get back at your ex will help you in absolutely no way.
Instead, I suggest you get help with getting over your ex.
Please don’t ever try to get back at an ex, it will not help you and could have terribly negative consequences. Instead, take a step back, realize you are going through a hurtful time just like everyone else in this world has gone through. Hurting after a breakup is a part of life.
If you need help learning how to get over your ex, get the help you need, and move on.
I have found that getting back with an ex doesn’t usually work too well if you aren’t sure about it.
Well, just couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Moreover first 10 days its difficult to leave without her but after that it’s easy to leave. So I don’t want my ex back. Thanks for your lovely suggestion.
What you said is useful for someone.Thank you for sharing.It is great.
I read blogs on a similar topic, but i never visited your blog. I added it to favorites and i’ll be your constant reader.
Thanks for your sharing! I find that the atmosphere is not what i want. It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple.
Well, just couple of days ago I broke up with my girlfriend and i dont care anymore…
You may think it will help you get over the anger and move on, but it won’t help. You may feel better for a few minutes, but chances are later on you will feel worse than ever.
My question to you is, did your ex still loves you?. If she/he does then try to capture his/her heart again.
I find that the atmosphere is not what i want. It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple.
I have never had try to win mine Ex hearth again.But from the couple of days i really miss her a lot but haven’t have any idea how to get him back but after seen you tips how to win back can’t wait to try it.
that is if you don’t love him/her anymore and if you feel like getting back with them is already useless.
but what if you still want them? what if you feel like you can’t live without them? lol!
well, getting over them will be really good if you have accepted to yourself already that you are ready to live and go on with your life without them.
you just need to weigh your feelings towards the situation.
That is so true! But I have to ask ….What If the one you love and want n\back is dating your best friemd???
Well, According to me, Setting up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problems.
My best friend is having a break off with her girlfriend before 6 months but one weak before they are again together…
This is such an important post.Really took me time to read all the comments, but I really enjoyed the article. It proved to be Very helpful to me and I am sure to all the commenters here! It is always good when you can not only be informed, but also entertained!
Moving on is a very important part of being hurt. That’s just the way it is. But getting your ex back is not that bad but you really have to move on first and prepare yourself. Time is our great healer.
That’s just the way it is. But getting your ex back is not that bad but you really have to move on first and prepare yourself. Time is our great healer.
I still feel very unsure about the topic of getting back with your ex. In my case, whenever I break up with anyone I moved on forward and never look back. Like one of the comments said when you get back together it’s the trust issues that ruin it. Unless both parties go back in with their heart on their shoulder again. That’s what I believe though.
Leslie
It is so boring and noisy. I want something simple