Get Back at an Ex
September 27, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Ex Back
I’m sometimes asked by those who have had their hearts broken by a breakup, how can I get back at my ex?
My first question is – “Do you want to try to win back you ex”? If you want to win back your ex, then you need to let go of that anger that wants to “get back at an ex”! You then need to take a cooling off period from your ex and have no contact with them for a period of time.
After that cooling off period, you need to decide if you really do want to try to win them back. If you do, there may still be a chance it can happen, but you need to follow the plan that has helped thousands win an ex back.
If you decide you don’t want to try to win them back, and just want to move on – that’s a good sign that you have discovered some things about you, or about your ex, and you don’t see things working out between you.
If you still want to get back at an ex, I have a great tip for you. Get some help with moving on with your life.
Getting back at your ex will not help you. You may think it will help you get over the anger and move on, but it won’t help. You may feel better for a few minutes, but chances are later on you will feel worse than ever.
Trying to get back at someone, is really another way of stating that you want to hurt someone in some way. This is immature, destructive, and can even be dangerous. Trying to get back at your ex will help you in absolutely no way.
Instead, I suggest you get help with getting over your ex.
Please don’t ever try to get back at an ex, it will not help you and could have terribly negative consequences. Instead, take a step back, realize you are going through a hurtful time just like everyone else in this world has gone through. Hurting after a breakup is a part of life.
If you need help learning how to get over your ex, get the help you need, and move on.
just watched the video , brilliant it has been very helpfull and informative and hopefully will help me get back with my partner, many thanks.
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I agree T Dub knows what he’s talking about when it comes to breakups.
One of my friends who met her bf in a free dating site broke up last year. And she mourn for a year.. still she wanted to get her ex back.. wehehe.. anyway just tell her to visit your page..
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Great post, staying away from each other is a great way, so try to put things aside and start to live your life and be happy. You shouldn’t just simply rush everything.
If you get back together with an ex, the one who didn’t finish it the first time will always have doubts that the other might finish it again, making the relationship less trusting. Without trust there is less closeness.
Good stuff. I certainly agree. A plan to get back at an ex, is a sure road to further heartache and could have even worse consequences. Instead focus on getting over your ex as the author suggests!
I am not sure that will help me but I will try…….:)
First of all I do not know why you should get back…usually if there was a problem, that problem will return again and again, and somthing that has been broke will remain broke. But it’s up to you.
Very great article, I couldn’t agree more with this one. Save yourself from further heartaches and instead focus on finding a new guy/girl. Getting a new partner will surely help you get over your Ex.
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i would never want my x back, i think once a relationship is done, it should be done for good, there are millions people in the world, why set your heart on just one,,,,i dont know just my thoughts
One of the most damaging things, if there are children involved, is if the parents continue to be hostile towards each other after the break-up.
You need to get clear on why you want to terminate the romance. The immediate reason that jumps into your mind may not be the real reason. Once you get clear, the next step in ending a relationship is to get honest. That means that in your discussion with your partner that you are true to yourself and to them.
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I think if you are not feeling the comfort in your relation then you should express this thing to your partner because it maintain the increasing difference in your relationship.
I say the best way to find out whether or not you actually want your ex back is to take a 2-4 week break from them. Go out, have fun, spend time with family then decide if you still want to call him/her and reconcile.
Be Firm in Ending the Relationship. Think it over and over before you decide whether to break the relationship or not. Whatever decision you make will not only affect your future relationship with your partner – it can cause a lifetime regret if you’ll realize in the end that it’s him that you want to be with.
everybody have a second change. if you really want to get back. Go get it!!
After a long time spent trying to get back my ex, I came to the conclusion that the best choice is to move forward and get overt it. If something doesn’t go well the first and second time, it surely won’t be better the third time
Haha, I agree with the advice to just get over your ex instead. Being heartbroken is already such an awful thing. Why make it worse by adding more negativity to the situation?
everybody have a second change. if you really want to get back. Go get it!!
You can’t make someone love you and I know it’s easier said than done but really I agree with the people above…you’ll feel much better if you put it behind you and move on.
You are so much better just putting your energies into finding a new boyfriend rather than wasting time getting back with an ex. If they want you, they will come back to you in the end..!
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We need to let go of our anger and resentment if we want to get our significant other back in our lives.
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A very good sign that there is a possibility to get back together is if there are still ANY type of feelings between you and your ex.
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