My Ex Wants More Space – How Do I Get Him Back

December 23, 2008 by  
Filed under Get Your Boyfriend Back

Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old “how to get my ex back” question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.

- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of you – But clearly you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own.

- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space.

- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.

- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.

- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

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205 Responses to “My Ex Wants More Space – How Do I Get Him Back”
  1. Jenny from wedding photographer raleigh says:

    I was so lost when my childhood boyfriend broke up with me because he found another girl that he thinks is more interesting than me. I cried so much that I really beg him to come back to me but say to say that it didn’t work. I hope I read this article 5 years ago :(

  2. I hate my ex until now because of leaving me. I still love him that much but it seems to me that it is too late because he is inlove with someone else and I don’t think he will comeback to me anymore.

  3. I am not sure if there’s a exact answers for this. I recently thought about wanting space from my boyfriend but we already have a long distance relationship. Perhaps you can ask why they want space and work out those issues while giving them space. I think it really depends on the reason why they space to answer this.

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  4. abbey from Bloomingdale's promo code says:

    If he comes back to you, good! But if not, don’t look for that closed door anymore because there are many open doors waiting for you.

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  6. A guy doesn’t fall for a girl out of pity, ever! You’d be amazed though, how many women try to use this “tactic” to get an ex boyfriend back. Please don’t be one of them! To get your ex boyfriend back, you will have to be confident and strong! Girls, I can not stress this enough.

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  8. The best way to do this is to give him a little space and not to call or text him every minute of every single day.

  9. Great articles! and i believes that try to give him space actually he wants and you i believes that you have always respect his decision so that he know that you still want him back once again in your personal life.

  10. Is there a point in the relationship when married couples stop kissing each other? Is this normal.Thanks in advance.

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    I think most importantly, don’t get your hopes up. Your ex may not want to come back and you will be devastated all over again.

  12. I think more space is good for you two. Maybe everything will be good after it.

  13. When a man starts to back off, it means there is not enough tension in the relationship. Think of it like a rubber band. If he backs off and you go after him, this makes the band go slack. The trick is to back off as well.

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  21. If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things.

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  30. Why someone wants space from you, because he is uncomfortable with you. I think it’s better to know the the reason behind it and try to focus more on it. Try to avoid the thing which your ex is not liking. By doing this slowly, your ex will definitely follow you.

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  33. If your ex wants space, it’s really something you’re going to have to respect. Definitely step away from the situation, and give both of you some time to reevaluate the relationship and what went wrong. After 30 days or so of no contact, drop your ex a text, something light and casual.

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    It’s interesting. Having a space for both of you will help you evaluate things objectively. That will be the time when both of you are no longer too emotional and it will help you see the things rationally. You would identify the missing links why there are misunderstandings and from there reinforce with what is best. When that time comes, surely you’ll see yourself again back in each others arms.

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