My Ex Wants More Space – How Do I Get Him Back
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Get Your Boyfriend Back
Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old “how to get my ex back” question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.
- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow him to get the best of you – But clearly you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own.
- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space.
- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.
- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I turned to T ‘Dub’ Jackson when I had no idea of how to get my true love back.
T ‘Dub’ authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.
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Unfortunately, from my experience when someone wants more space it’s because they have interest in dating someone else. You really have to give them space. Don’t sit around and mope, get out there, go out with friends and have fun. You may just find out that you like the space.
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While convincing my ex, I always become desperate but your this advice may be helpful and I will avoid looking desperate again.
Yea you cannot be desperate and that is where you are going to fail! Show no interest and make him jelous
Yes Tai, You should defenately avoid becoming too emotional and desperate while talking to your spouse.
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I agree with the post. I always think the best way is to play hard to get and make minimum connect that works the best and to start dating other people to get your ex off your mind when you feel like calling.
This scenario occurs quite often, and it is good to know how you should handle such a situation should you face it. The strategies you employ in tackling the issue will determine the final outcome, and you should not use any guesswork or act on a whim.
I believe if you really love him then you should respect his decision for more space, and when he desires to see you again, be confident and don’t make it so easy for him to get you back because there are a number of reasons why a boyfriend may suddenly need space…
The approach would really depend on his reasons for wanting some space. If you can identify his reasons, you can be supportive or allow him time to figure things out. His alone time could make him realise what he wants, namely you.
Some time alone can make a person realise what he loves about life and what he should focus on.
Good post and I agree with that.
When a man needs more space, I can’t think of a better solution than giving him a little bit of tolerance.
Think about it, giving him more space, he pays back with giving you more love
The best way is to talk to him and ask the reason why and then give him the space that he needed and if make up his mind and he’s ready to be with you again its up to you if you will accept him.
Nine times out of ten if someone wants more space, it really means that they haven’t built up the courage to talk about breaking up. This will be mainly down to his perception on how you will react.
The worst thing that you could do is to appear needy and emotional if your boyfriend comes out with this statement. This will just want to make him leave more quickly, and get you really uset. Plus instead of more space, this will be a probable break up, with just the words missing.
Do the complete opposite to what he expects. Agree with him that a bit of space would do you both good, and tell him that you had been thinking along the same lines for sometime now.
This approach will probably throw him a little, because he thought that he was the one in control, but clearly that doesn’t seem to be the case.
Be cool, be confident, be everything that he doesn’t expect you to be. This will send his poor brain into spasms, and throw doubts into his mind.
Jenny
The only way through which you can get him /her back and that is, do all the things according to your partner. It will make him/her happy and so you can get your EX back.
Here i think you should give him space so that he will think about you so don’t ask him that where he is going and from where he is coming. This is the only reason for which they have to face many problems.
Yes Tai,
You are correct, we should always avoid becoming desperate for our mate. Nice post (and discussion) here.
- Vincent
I think if he ask for some space, let him have it. While you were not together, go out with your girlfriends. Catch up on all the times you’ve lost because you are spending more time with your boyfriend. Once he’ll realize your importance, you will see you will be more loved than before.
If he asks for space then give him space. That can also be an opportunity to give more time to yourself and other things. You may feel lonely about him, that’s understandable but once you overcome it by doing other important things then you will know that it is a good decision after all. It is actually a win-win solution if you will try to improve yourself while you give the man the thing that he ask (which is space). If he comes back then that would be great. If not, then you will have to accept it, at least you have done the right thing and you will realize that you have also blessed yourself at the same time.
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I think in the end, sometimes men just don’t come back. They might be attracted to other women for different reasons, and it’s not always your fault. Sometimes, you just can’t win and have to move on…
Well i think men are very weak or you can say that they have lots of weak points and i think girls are one of them so you just have to do the right thing in a right time. Anyways keep it up and keep sharing your valuable thoughts. Anyways keep it up and keep continue with your valuable thoughts.
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Great post. If a person really wants to get back their EX they need to reopen the lines of communication quickly and try to work on the differences in the relationship that are causing the issues.
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