If My Ex Boyfriend Got a Girlfriend, can I Still Win Him Back?
January 10, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Boyfriend Back
If my ex boyfriend got a girlfriend, can I still win him back?
If your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, yes you can still win him back. But, you need to be patient and handle things correctly. It can also greatly depend on who broke up with who.
If you broke up with him, it will probably be easier to win him back. He may have this new girlfriend to fill a void he has with missing you, or he may be trying to make you jealous. Still, you need to handle things correctly, and I will give you some tips below.
If he broke up with you, it will probably be a little more difficult winning him back and it will probably take more time. If he broke up with you, there may be a number of different reasons why your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend. He may have wanted to date other people, including the girl he is now with. If you have done something that hurt him, resulting in him breaking up with you, he may be dating to get back at you – he may trying to hurt you. Finally, he may have come to the conclusion that you two are not a good match and he has moved on.
The good news is, in every case, there still is a chance that you can win him back.
First, here are some things you absolutely, positively DO NOT want to do. You do not want to beg and plead to get back together. You do not want to promise to change your ways if he’ll just take you back.
And, you cannot even think about going so far as to try and break up the new relationship he might be having. This type of behavior is immature, appears too needy and will probably drive him away forever. It will cement in his mind that you are not right for each other.
Do not follow him around on his dates, or show up everywhere you think he and his new girlfriend are going to be. This is not good for you, and your peace of mind. Plus it makes you appear to be stalking, which is just creepy.
In the other hand, don’t go out of your way to avoid him. If you frequent the same places restaurants, clubs, school or whatever don’t stop going there to avoid him.
Instead, the next time you end up in the same place together, when you walk in and see him, acknowledge him. But instead of going up to him and trying to get his attention, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room.
Another technique that can be very powerful, is to tell him that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more comfortable. If he insists that you stay, do stay but move away from him and mingle with other people. If he says nothing, or doesn’t insist you stay, be nice and polite and simply go. It may be really hard on you, but that mature, confident, strong behavior will get him thinking.
It’s important to remember at all times how you appear to him. It’s going to be hard to get him back if you look childish or scheming.
After a week or two, give him a call just to say hello, and to tell him that you were thinking about him. Ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions like that. Don’t start pouring your heart out on how you may be struggling and want him back. If you appear to be moving on, he will have to reflect on if he still wants to restore the relationship with you or not.
If he hasn’t made any moves to indicate he wants to see you, it’s okay to call him every two weeks or so to check in and see how he’s doing. At some point in time, he will either give you clues that he still has some interest in you, or you will find out that he is no longer interested.
In either case, you should now be in a place were you can handle the situation without too much emotion being involved.
Even if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, you can win him back, you just need to tools to help you. This winning an ex back guide has helped over 6100 people in 67 countries win their love back – I’m sure it can help you!
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My Ex Boyfriend and i went out for 2 years and we lived together for a year. But i left the country for an exchange program for about 8 months, so we i was away we were kinda fight a lot. and I may ignored him sometimes, so eventually i said that/s it, let’s break up. we do that all the time, so i think this is not a serious break up, it’s just a way to cool down a little bit. but after 2 weeks, i was waiting for him to call me or msn me, he didnt, so i kinda feel something’s wrong. We talked on msn, and he told me that’s it, he had enough and he decided to move on. I was like what? taht’s crazy, and i dont believe he will move on anyways, so i beg him to take me back etc. but we still talking on msn like normally but everytime when i try to use the intimate word he got mad and said dont do that. But i think he’s still mad at me, when i came back to Canada it would be different. I came back like 3 months later, he didnt pick me up from the airport, instead, when i called him he said why u calling me, i have class in the morning, then hang up. i callled him out on second day cuz all my stuff is at his place. He helped me move, and i tried to make him back, then we end up having sex. the second day we went out for lunch, and he just act so casual, and saying all the fake stuff like we still can have lunch sometimes blah blah blah. I didnt understand him, so i was so sad, and depressed the whole time, 2 weeks later, i found out he already has a girlfriend for almost 3 months, which means after we broke up he hooked up with this girl already! i didnt know what he was thinking, i was his first love ever, how can he do that to me? and all his friends like that new girl, i met that girl once, she’s shorter, way fatter and uglier than me. but she’s nice, my ex bf said i’m mean to him and cant control my temper. i think that’s my issue too. he sent me a song called” ‘hot and cold” he said that’ s exactly me. i agree. but all i want is a second chance to proof i can change. all he said to me is ppl dont change. so i tried to forget him. we still talk on msn like once every 2 weeks, just casual catch up. until recently, i met this new guy, he likes me a lot, but i dont have romantic feeling for him, instead, i think he’s a really caring friend. anyway, he ask me out with his friends go clubbing, i said yes, but 3 days before the event, i found out my ex and his gf is going as well. so i prepared and looked really hot that night. but when i saw him, there’s something inside me just dragged me to him, and anyway, i end up insult his new gf, calling her fat. He’s disappointed at me. and due to my behaviour he said im mean and ppl dont change. i think i blew it, i cried all day. second day i felt really bad about what i did, i apologized to that girl by phone. and apologized to my ex as well. he came to my new apartment, and we went for a ride. we end up talk like friends again. cuz in the club, i said to him “i miss you”. he said” i miss you too,and u r my first love, everyone has a soft spot in their heart, but if we go back together we just gonna end up fighting again.” i can tell he still love me, but he just doesnt believe in me anymore. he wanna stay as friends. what should i do? i mean i felt way better now, but still, i wanted to know if theres anything i can do to make him come back to me even tho he moved on with a nice girl now. p.s. his new gf is gonna be out of the country in July until Sep. is there a chance for me to win him back by using this time?
great article. I totally understand this now. I would like to thank you for the efforts you have made in writing this article.
It is actually the first time that I visit this page, and the whole site looks very inspiring so far.
It is depend on your philosophy of life. If you believe in good friendship than you should think positive and you should except him but should not give more freedom. Love and Friendship have their own important.
It’s funny how I went begging with my ex boyfriend once and yet ended up losing him. I should have read this article earlier.
Anyway, can still even use the tips when I’ll encounter the same scenario in the future. lol.
Great article!
IF your boyfriend doesn’t love you than you should never try to get him back.It is ot good for you.After reading this all stuff i give this suggestion.
I tried to forget him. they still talk on msn like four times every four weeks, casual catch up. until recently, i met this new man, they likes me a lot, but i dont have romantic feeling for him, instead
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If your boyfriend not interested in you than why do you wants him back? you should not try to get him back.this is my suggestion i hope it will helpful for you.
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If your ex has a new sweetheart, yes you can still win him again. But, you need to be individual and manage elements effectively.
hey sandra here.. yeah it is hard to find love again.. but i’ve moved past all the bs.. but i’ve met some cool neat peoples on chat room directory.. it’s helped a lot (:
Sometimes, it’s better to leave off from what’s already done. Find yourself a date, enjoy things that interests you the most. Wanting an ex-boyfriend who’s already in a relationship with someone else is like wanting to get something back because someone else has found it. It doesn’t make you much of a winner if you dwell on that. It would be better to just let them be. Think of the relationship you’ll have if you get back together, there’d definitely be trust issues. Plus, he wouldn’t have gotten into a new relationship if he wasn’t already over you, it’s about time you move on too.
If your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, yes you can still win him back. But, you need to be patient and handle things correctly. It can also greatly depend on who broke up with who….
When it is over it is over.No point trying to fix stuff
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I really really like my ex boyfriend. But the problem is he always pays attention my other friends who are really pretty and charming. They’re really girly and i miss him so much. There’s also this thing on his Facebook profile that says his ex is annoying.
For the five past nights I have dreamed of my Ex. I have a new boyfriend that I have been going out with for 4 months now. I’ve been very happy with my new boyfriend. But I just found out a week ago that my ex has a new girlfriend, which was a shock to me, and so started the dreams… How do I end them?
I have and ex that is moving in a couple days far away and he tells me lets chill before i leave what should i do? I mean do u think he just wants to chill for sex…im so confused because i want to becuz i feel like im never gonna see him again, but is it worth chillin with him or losing my boyfriend now?