If My Ex Boyfriend Got a Girlfriend, can I Still Win Him Back?
January 10, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Boyfriend Back
If my ex boyfriend got a girlfriend, can I still win him back?
If your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, yes you can still win him back. But, you need to be patient and handle things correctly. It can also greatly depend on who broke up with who.
If you broke up with him, it will probably be easier to win him back. He may have this new girlfriend to fill a void he has with missing you, or he may be trying to make you jealous. Still, you need to handle things correctly, and I will give you some tips below.
If he broke up with you, it will probably be a little more difficult winning him back and it will probably take more time. If he broke up with you, there may be a number of different reasons why your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend. He may have wanted to date other people, including the girl he is now with. If you have done something that hurt him, resulting in him breaking up with you, he may be dating to get back at you – he may trying to hurt you. Finally, he may have come to the conclusion that you two are not a good match and he has moved on.
The good news is, in every case, there still is a chance that you can win him back.
First, here are some things you absolutely, positively DO NOT want to do. You do not want to beg and plead to get back together. You do not want to promise to change your ways if he’ll just take you back.
And, you cannot even think about going so far as to try and break up the new relationship he might be having. This type of behavior is immature, appears too needy and will probably drive him away forever. It will cement in his mind that you are not right for each other.
Do not follow him around on his dates, or show up everywhere you think he and his new girlfriend are going to be. This is not good for you, and your peace of mind. Plus it makes you appear to be stalking, which is just creepy.
In the other hand, don’t go out of your way to avoid him. If you frequent the same places restaurants, clubs, school or whatever don’t stop going there to avoid him.
Instead, the next time you end up in the same place together, when you walk in and see him, acknowledge him. But instead of going up to him and trying to get his attention, simply say hello and go about your business in another part of the room.
Another technique that can be very powerful, is to tell him that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more comfortable. If he insists that you stay, do stay but move away from him and mingle with other people. If he says nothing, or doesn’t insist you stay, be nice and polite and simply go. It may be really hard on you, but that mature, confident, strong behavior will get him thinking.
It’s important to remember at all times how you appear to him. It’s going to be hard to get him back if you look childish or scheming.
After a week or two, give him a call just to say hello, and to tell him that you were thinking about him. Ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions like that. Don’t start pouring your heart out on how you may be struggling and want him back. If you appear to be moving on, he will have to reflect on if he still wants to restore the relationship with you or not.
If he hasn’t made any moves to indicate he wants to see you, it’s okay to call him every two weeks or so to check in and see how he’s doing. At some point in time, he will either give you clues that he still has some interest in you, or you will find out that he is no longer interested.
In either case, you should now be in a place were you can handle the situation without too much emotion being involved.
Even if your ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend, you can win him back, you just need to tools to help you. This winning an ex back guide has helped over 6100 people in 67 countries win their love back – I’m sure it can help you!
Its always joyful to get back a broken relationship. The above given tips are very useful for people who want their ex-back.
Dude, this thing really works? Hmmm, seems pretty interesting!
Worth a shot I guess!
“There’s definitely a dangerous feeling when you’re in love.. it’s giving your heart to someone else and knowing that they have control over your feelings. I know for me, who always tries to be so tough, that’s the dangerous thing”
Moving on and getting on with life seems the best advice here.
Nothing is more likely to make an ex have second thoughts than seeing you confident, assured and enjoying life without them. If they come crawling back, it should be on your terms, not theirs.
I tend to agree with James’s outlook. I don’t think it’’s very healthy fro either person to try and control the situation. Think about WHY you broke up. what has changed, what hasn’t, Most of the time it is a feeling of Loss that makes us want our ex back. Not really loss of the person, but Loss of Stability.
I say Move on. experience the next stage of your life. If it was meant to be it will happen on it’s own.
Cool article…
Great article but i dont think is good idea going back to your ex at all.
Alex
As a relationship consultant who specialises in helping people to get back with their ex I can confirm that this is useful information. The key is not to get too heavy and not to be in the way. Give him space but let him know that you’re still there.
I would definetly agree that you can get them back. Stay active in their life, but do not be to needy. Work on the friendship and everything else will fall into place.
Give them 2 weeks is the best advice. Give a little space and then go in for the kill… Dont talk about giving it two weeks and then falling in after 4 days. That is the hard part is not talking to them. Women are strange creatures and you have to learn how to talk to women.
Nice tips! Though i know its better said than done but what is really needed is taking thiongs cool, if he doesnt want to be with you, then there is nothing you can do to win him back.
If my ex-bf had a girlfriend it means that he has moved on and i won’t make any move to get him back it’s just giving a respect to their relationship.
Always stay active in your ex’s life if you want to get them back! Don’t be needy, and I would even venture to say you should flaunt your independence from your ex. This can actually really be attractive to some people, and works in a lot of cases. If your ex is with someone else while you are trying to get him/her back be patient and be eager to offer emotional support when things go wrong (and they will) and before you know it things will be all patched up!
That is difficult case, but pray to good and be more nicer to him by looking in his eyes.
i think you could do that…. talk to a good friend and tell him to give you an advice .. u know.. greetings and good luck
Me and my babys dad broke up. We had a lot of problems and in less than 2 weeks he found a new gf but i want him back. My son needs his dad and i need him too. What can I do?
We always find some sort of attraction towards our ex is it not? though we are broke up, we still have some soft corner for them.
If you and your ex boyfriend or girlfriend got back together after you had broken up, how long did it take before you two started talking again?
sometimes people break up for a reason.. maybe time is the best way to tell if you should get back together….?
I don’t think it’’s very healthy fro either person to try and control the situation. Think about WHY you broke up. what has changed, what hasn’t, Most of the time it is a feeling of Loss that makes us want our ex back
Good advice, even if you do not win your boyfriend back you will certainly be proud of the way you have handled things.