Can I Win Him Back Even If He Shows No Interest
February 25, 2009 by admin
Filed under Get Your Boyfriend Back
You may be thinking that since you have lost your boyfriend and he shows no interest in getting back together, that it’s over for good.
Honestly, it may be over for good, but you still may have a chance to win him back even if he shows no interest.
There’s really only one way of knowing if you can win him back, and that is to give it a try. He may be appearing to have moved on, and has no interest in you, but you may still have a chance.
The best thing you can do is to show him that you still care about him as a person. You can’t be a needy, stalking ex girlfriend – you need to be a supportive friend. By being mature and showing him that you can be in the same room together without creating drama, will go a long way to proving to him that you can still be friends, or at least acquaintances, without being in a love relationship.
Become a friend that understands his feelings, trials and successes. Joke with him and show him he can have a good time hanging out with you.
Most solid relationships start out as friendships, so you need to go back to the basics of being a friend. It could be that your relationship never grew from a strong friendship and that hurt your love relationship.
Going back to being friends and growing from there, may make for a stronger love relationship in the future.
Be warned that being friends can be difficult, especially when you see him dating other people. If you still want him back, that’s something you will have to deal with. As time goes by, he will either realize that you are a great friend and one of the few people he can really count on.
When you reach the point of being good friends, there will come a time when he will realize he still wants to be more than friends with you. Or, you may just realize that you have moved on and can no longer be more than friends with him.
In any case, you will have done the right, and mature thing, will have grown as a person and will either have won him back or you will me moving on to better relationship.
So you can get your ex back even when he shows no interest in you. For more tips like this, you need to read the Win Him Back Guide.
Yes, you are right that someone can still get back a boyfriend even if he shows no interest. At first point, showing no interest does not mean that he is really not interested. Even if he is not interested there is way to get him back. I as a man can guarantee that.
I agree what you said. I will say in short that what you have to do is create the same interest in his mind that made him fall in love with you.
As you say there is no use in being a stalker and begging for love. Love cannot be begged. You should live your life as usual. Try to look good, don’t show that you are sad. Let them know that you understand that both of you had faults and you admit that. But never ask them to take you back. Just go with the flow making sure you catch up with him and slowly start spending more time together and so on.
That is the ideal and best way in my opinion.
Regards
If he shows no interest he’s probably moved on and one way of getting him to show interest is to move on yourself, get on with your life, live it to the full and be happy. A great kick start to that is taking a holiday, go on your own and take a holiday course. Try it for yourself, book a trip doing an activity you’ll always wanted to try (and perhaps your ex didn’t want to), you’ll meet like minded people and if you are learning a new skill as well as having fun and socialising with others you’ll become more confident and therefore more attractive to your ex (that’s if you still want him after your holiday!)
my story is totally different from all of urs.i had a boy friend ,he was about to break up his ex then we started dating and living at my place i truly fell in love with him we decided to marry and i got pregnant and it was not by accident we wished that….suddenly i got to knw he is stll in touch with his ex i couldnt accept it i wa under a lot of pressure and i did stupid things i had problems from my job finance my baby all my family and him and lablab ….finally i attempted a suicide …after that i was about 3 months under medication fro the abortion and other problems on my body ….he used to tell me that they are just simple friend but i couldnt accept it i left them both but i still love him so deeply after 6 months he sent me an email just showing hes worried for my sustained back we look at each other but don speak…he is still in touch with his ex…but id really like to knw if there is a bit of chance that i win him back???plz help me
Excellent tip. Nevertheless, if you fail, just let him go. He’s not the only good guy in the world. Moreover, if you’re still young, you have a great chance to meet a better man. Good luck!
Just because a guys doesnt show interest doesnt mean his isnt interested. Men often use this tactic in the hope that the girl will see him as a chellenge.
Try and give him the silent treatment for a while he may come running back to you.
If she is worth fighting for then why not give it a shot you hav nothing to lose
see the problem with that is I think you should just leave the guy no one should be chased after if they show no interest.
hey great post, i wish my ex was trying to win me back, she was hot !!
Most importantly always stay strong and apply any strategies that you have learned anywhere else with confidence… it does will work but with patience
If you two are still in touch with each other. Try suggesting a short date with him. eg. lunch is good but not dinner. Do something both of you like and not talk about your relationship. Keep things light and see how it goes.
Yes, You can do it.
Show him you love very much. 100% he will come back.
You should clearly state if he leaves you, there’s no way back, because you are not his back up plan. Take a break from him, give him time to think and, hopefully, to miss you.
You should just walk away, there are plenty of opportunities out there for you
The break up is the time when you get your feelings under control and look after yourself so you can increase your chances to get him back. During the break up spend time on yourself so you become more attractive to your ex.
If you have done the right thing you can win him back without doubt if you are the one who leaves him. However, just like what they said that if he leaves you there won’t be coming back.
If they are worth fighting for them go for it. Sometimes it’s worth crawling back if they are worth it!
Depends on what caused the break up in the first place. Sometimes it’s not so simple to just go back.
Excellent Post… Merci
My story is totally different from all ours, my ex break up with me and ask me to be his best friend, I accept. After he told me he break up with me, he said even he has a girl friend and he sees me that girl with be in trouble with him as soon as he sees me. Never call me, I am the one who call sometime no answer I text him no answer sometime out of 3 text he sent one. We went to Vegas for 5 days while we break up, it’s was great he ask me to go there again sometime in October. He told me we best friend but he don’t what I have in my head. We went to movies, we went out to eat and I slept with him this month 3 times. The maim problem I have with this friendship he not calling me. I got tired. I want him back the same way we were before I don’t know what else to do.
If a guy doesn’t show any interest with you, i won’t waste my time besides there are so many deserving guys out there.
I would never suggest to chase after someone if they are showing interest. With my own personal experience, you should leave them be and then they are even more interested!
‘Love is blind’ its true. But your lover is not showing interest in you then don’t waste your time. God doing everything quite well.
It seems to me that you can hardly get back what is lost. Besides, perhaps, it’s better to demonstrate some pride instead of treating an ex-boyfriend as a challenge. It hardly seems to be a job worth doing it. Unless, naturally, you are unable to live without him.
Very nice article you have submitted, i think it is possible because girls have power to attract anyone so just use that power and he will be with you. About your tips it was nice and considerable.
I think a girl can easily get her Ex back because they are so beautiful and very attractive so if they want to get their ex back they should follow your tips so that they can easily get their Ex back.
As i think about this matter, it depends on the girl because she has a power of attraction so this is the only way through which she can get her boyfriend back.
The main thing is the lack of communication, if all pair try to avoid this then breakups will be finish.
Well from my point of view the answer of your post should be “YES” because i think a girl have a power of attraction so that she can attract to any one. This is really a great gift and try to attract him i challenge he will come to you soon. Anyways keep it up and keep continue with your valuable thoughts.
There is always that possibility. Think back to what brought you together in the first place. Don’t appear desperate and pushy, you obviously know this person well enough to do all the right things.
Useful Information. But I always teach my readers to make use of the three profound rules of taoism:
We Pursue that which retreats from us
Be Excellent
Be Gone
The three put together work wonders. Guys always fall for this trick easily. So it’s not that hard to get a guy back after a breakup
Would be really interesting if this would work.
If i think about my self in a similar situation and my x wants me back but i am not interested then i cant possible thnk about what he or she can do to make me come back?
Maybe this boook has the answers…=)
Why show interest to someone who doesn’t give back to the same feelings?
If only everyone in that position behaved with the amount of self respect and dignity that you suggest we would have very few nasty divorces and hurt feelings.
this is great advice, im going through this right now, and going back to being friends is vital. If you are being inmature it will just confirm his decision. buck up buttercup!
It’s very difficult to give concrete advice on these situations. Everyone has there own set of circumstances. Your gut feeling is where you will get the best direction.
Great post.. really you don’t have to beg, you don’t have to plead, you just need tocomesdown to male psychology – the trick is to push his “emotional hot buttons”. Triggers that are specific to only men.